Are there any Christians on here? Advise for how to apply these lessons from a christian mindset?

palmerd21 · 2016-02-15T05:45:14+00:00

Seductiveness is one of the qualities of the devil.

Johnnie3Lungs · 2016-02-15T05:28:19+00:00

What if the love of your life isn't a Christian? Or is that not an option?

Train33 · 2016-02-15T05:53:00+00:00

Personally, I find it hard to flirt with women when a ton of girls that I've gotten really attached to end up having completely different spiritual mindsets. It's quite disappointing.

Thanks for reading!

Hey dude, right here I think you are speaking about two different parts of an interaction. Mainly the beginning and the end.

If your problem is that YOU don't stay attracted to girls because if their mindset, that's fine just go find ones where they share the same mindset ( church etc).

If your problem is that you don't even know how to start attracting a female then that is a completely different ball game.

I want you to understand that you being attracted to the opposite sex is not a sin. Neither is checking out a girl or thinking she is beautiful. Those are all natural reactions to experiencing whatever beauty is to you. If those things did not happen, we as the human race would cease to exist because we would not procreate. Don't be ashamed of being attracted to the physicality of the female, embrace it. You're a man.

This leads me to my second point. The point of this seduction forum, at its core is not about learning things to "trick" someone to becoming attracted to you. It's about embracing and understanding who you are as an individual and how to interact with others you may come across ( a female). As a man there is a certain way you should act in which females are naturally drawn to.

So to answer your question: You don't necessarily have to go out and pull a girl home to learn these traits and compromise your morals. All you have to do is ask the question "why". Why is eye contact so important? Why should you lead? Why should you touch the girl? You do these things for different reasons and they show different things about you but at its core it shows that you are a man. Essentially, learn to interact male to female (as Adam and Eve were designed) and you won't have to compromise your beliefs.

tajbinjohn · 2016-02-15T07:31:25+00:00

Don't listen to the edgy guys here.

Many of the things here can help finding a wife you just have to be a little more selective than most guys. Most of the info on this sub isn't inherently sinful it's how you use it.

tamilgangster · 2016-02-16T11:38:33+00:00

dude this is not a religious subreddit, and if ur not interested in hooking up this is not the subreddit for you

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-02-15T05:42:56+00:00

I've lurked on this subreddit for years now.

And yet you have learned nothing

daddymonsterpoodle · 2016-02-15T08:31:37+00:00

I am not christian, but even I understand that Jesus preached love for man and woman. I struggle to understand why god would create women and punish us for desiring them.
Most of this site is about being a strong confident man. Collossans (excuse spelling) talks specifically about a man leading his house. Seems like the same message to me. When you find a woman that you want to make your wife, how will you attract her and make her think you are worthy husband material, pray she likes you? No you ate going to seduce her, with your confidence, strength of character, your faith maybe, maybe your sense of humour, your kindness, and all the attributes that your maker put in you. It is still a seduction though He also gave you the ability to learn and make yourself better. There is no shame in being strong and fit or dominant. If you don't want to sleep with women before marriage, don't although it is a lot more complicated after marriage. How are you going to meet women though if you aren't dating? What is taught here is not good or evil, it is how you apply it.

Title	Are there any Christians on here? Advise for how to apply these lessons from a christian mindset?
Author	pyroxl
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Date	February 15, 2016 4:55 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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