How do I get a girl to come back to my place?

TheXXL · 2016-03-10T10:56:16+00:00

I go up to her, I say "hey, you're really pretty. wonna dance?"

Don't compliment her on how pretty she is, she has heard this that night 100 times already. You are nothing but a creepy guy to her.

if she says no, move on.

I guess your problem is that most of them say no?

a friend of mine suggested I should pull her towards me (by gently grabbing the area right above her hips towards me) and than dancing with her.

Good idea, start Kino right away.

i wait 30 seconds until i lean in and kiss her.

Very bold, might work if there is enough chemistry, but high risk of failure.

if she leans on me and we do kiss, i wait a minute kissing her and than i tell her "wonna go back to my place?"

Might work, but in most cases it won't.

i know this whole plan seems a bit calculated but is there ANYTHING that you would recommend to open up well.

Don't be needy, build comfort and take some time. Or, look out for horny girls, and try to pull them immediately. There are not as many of those probably.

I just don't see why it isn't working.

You really don't?

I've been on dry spell for weeks now and I am getting really stressed out.

This my friend. You are needy as fuck. Most women don't work like a blowjob dispenser, they require to trust you, and why should they? coming back to your place just because you want them to? Why would a girl take that risk, she does not know you, and feels that you are just needy, that's a turn off for women.

Read into how to properly seduce a woman. Seducing means that she wants to go to your place to get fucked. Not that she simply obeys your demands.

Woujo · 2016-03-10T12:50:06+00:00

wait so you go up to girls at a club and, dance for like 2 minutes, and then ask them to go home with you? Seriously? What the fuck are you doing? That's not how girls work. Most girls, unless they are incredibly desperate or crazy, are not going to go home with some random guy they have been dancing with for five minutes. You need to build up a rapport. You need to dance with them, have a drink with them, do a bunch of activities, etc....

Kinetic_Card · 2016-03-10T14:05:30+00:00

"I have a knife, get in the van."

treefrog24 · 2016-03-10T14:01:12+00:00

Obviously only works if you smoke and the girl does too. But "wanna smoke?" Has never failed me.

I've even gotten the girl back to my place and had no weed and just pretended to lose it and said... "Oh well, want a drink instead?"

Archangel_White_Rose · 2016-03-10T14:51:52+00:00

Seriously? You gonna try to pull her from the dance floor right to your place? Dance with her a bit, make some chit chat, maybe get a drink. Mention you're hungry, go grab some take out nearby, then take her back to your place.

2016-03-10T15:12:05+00:00

Simple answer to this stop focusing on trying to bring her home and shagging just be normal don't be too pushy it comes off as creepy.

mad-n-fla · 2016-03-10T15:24:40+00:00

Step one is to find a girl that wants to go to your place, let her decide.

jgottlander · 2016-03-10T17:02:42+00:00

Have you seen this one? Richard la Ruina - The formula for night game

DaygameCoach · 2016-03-10T17:56:15+00:00

http://lmgtfy.com/?q=pua+plausible+deniability

Llleblanc1986 · 2016-03-12T05:39:10+00:00

"Lets go to my place" that simple

Title	How do I get a girl to come back to my place?
Author	batmaster96
Upvotes	16
Comments	17
Date	March 10, 2016 10:35 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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