Girl who 'just wants to stay friends' sends me nudes and tells me how much she wants to suck my dick, but only when drunk. Huge red flag?

SkorchZang · 2014-06-26T01:25:34+00:00

Girl wants to be FWB, no strings. Up to you if you want her to suck your dick.

Keep in mind she's also fucking someone else, working on a sweet "relationshop" with a sugar daddy, or whatever else. She told you herself, she's not dating or emotional commitment material, but FWB might be awesome. If you end up fucking her, definitely rubber up no matter what man.

GunsGermsAndSteel · 2014-06-26T05:17:50+00:00

Hang onto the texts where she invited sexual contact. Many women define "regret" as "rape". Send her a text afterward using casual language that confirms the sexual contact was mutually agreed upon and welcome.

Drunk chicks love to act like they got raped.

How come when I used to get drunk, get laid, and get a case of the regretsies, I had to face up to it on my own?

Exactly_what_I_think · 2014-06-26T00:27:10+00:00

This isn't rocket surgery. If you want your dick sucked get your dick sucked.

pupplenupple · 2014-06-27T01:41:17+00:00

She's attracted to you (drunken sexual invitations) she also likes your personality (wants to be your friend) but you don't meet one or more of her criteria for a publicly acknowledged boyfriend type situation. Maybe you aren't as impressive to her friends as she'd like or you don't have the future earning potential she wants from a beta husband. Maybe you want kids and she doesn't. Or maybe you don't want kids and she does.

The bad news is she's going to make someone a shitty slutty unfaithful wife sometime. She knows you don't meet her soberly decided criteria but when she gets drunk, you're on the menu. Slutsville.

The good news is that she's only a step or two away from being a plate.

I suggest you try to work out why she doesn't want you as a boyfriend. Where does she see herself heading in life? Try to work out why that ain't you. Then you need to work out how to get her to soberly accepting she can regularly fuck you and still head in the direction she wants to go.

Anyway, it is OK to have an emotional connection with a plate. Human beings have feelings. You can like them, they can like you, deep fondness can develop. What there is never going to be with a plate is commitment and ownership.

unethical_pirate · 2014-06-26T00:52:38+00:00

Take her out for a drink, go back to yours, stick your dick in her and pee. It's pretty easy OP. Just sounds like she needs it for a bit of confidence. She wouldn't need it if you'd man up and give her what you both want. How long has this been going on?

niczar · 2014-06-26T15:58:23+00:00

we kiss a lot, she sends nudes and tells me how much she wants to suck my dick.

Well this is a clear example of how complex and inscrutable women are. It's really hard to tell what she really wants here. You really need to talk to a psychic or something, because I'm really stumped. Maybe it's a code? Have you tried analysing the image file for steganographic data? It could contain the map to a pirate treasure chest, or important revelations about the Illuminati. I don't know.

anxious on escalating

Ah yes. You're right to be prudent. You wouldn't want to offend a lady by making a faux-pas. She really sounds like the type to be easily startled by strong emotions. She's probably very old fashioned and prude. You should consider contacting her father and formally asking for her hand in marriage.

wakethfkupneo · 2014-06-26T09:17:21+00:00

Read this:

The Revealed Preferences Of Drunk Girls

Alcohol is truth serum, and a drunk girl will reveal her true desires faster and more boldly than a sober girl who has mental checkpoints, border guards and lockdown procedures in place to dupe provider beta males about the nature of women’s sexuality that is unleashed in limbic lands just beyond his ken.

Now you know, it's just whether you want to.

[deleted] · 2014-06-26T10:32:03+00:00

It's a giant red flag that you haven't taken the red pill if you even have to ask this here... She is begging to be one of your plates with the added benefit of already making clear she doesn't want anything.

WTF else do you want?

alreadyredschool · 2014-06-26T12:13:11+00:00

Girls get extremely horny when they are drunk. This is because they stop feeling guilt over being a slut. They don't care about social chains anymore. If she wants to suck your D and you want to get yours sucked then do it.

Title	Girl who 'just wants to stay friends' sends me nudes and tells me how much she wants to suck my dick, but only when drunk. Huge red flag?
Author	mrihatelabels
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Comments	20
Date	June 26, 2014 12:02 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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