How do girls pickup other girls??

peachesandcreame · 2016-03-27T20:44:37+00:00

Stand physically closer than normal, be touchy from the beginning and let the touch linger a little longer than a plantonic touch, sexy eye contact (look at her then visualize that you two are doing something sexual like eating each other out or kissing), use sexual innuendo and misinterpretation, use your boyfriend (If I had a girlfriend into girl and went out threesome hunting, I'd bring you into the conversation and say something like "Homemade vanilla, don't you think [Girl I just met] is cute?" then you'd need to agree and express a sexy comment.

Let me know if you want to go out to pick up girls together ;)

AAtoPUA · 2016-03-27T18:54:08+00:00

Firstly, you have to know whether the girl is into girls, because you'll always be "friendzoned" if they're not into girls.

You can also check "Kezia Noble", she's a female PUA, but I don't know if she talks about picking up girls herself.

UnclePaul50 · 2016-03-27T22:20:10+00:00

I'll be out with my bf and I'll watch him talk to girls like a natural, but I don't know how to join in without it coming off as platonic.

Well, if you're trying to pick up girls while you're out with your boyfriend, you're sending some pretty mixed signals. Most girls are probably going to just assume you're straight, or in a committed relationship, both of which will immediately put you in the friendzone.

You probably just need to walk into a lesbian bar alone a couple times and practice. If threesomes are what you're going for, you need to get close to the girl on your own first and then introduce the idea that you're bi.

monsieurpommefrites · 2016-03-27T22:42:50+00:00

with good form and breathing

Throwawayfromme7 · 2016-04-02T12:37:35+00:00

So i know I'm 5 days late but i just stumbled upon your post about picking up girls and i had to comment.

My girlfriend and I go out to pick up girls together for a Threesome. The thing is, she's more successful than i am. And there's really only a few reasons why:

She doesn't take anything too seriously
It's WAY easier to come off non threatening for girls as opposed to guys
She's very open and honest with her intentions up front

And that's really it. A typical interaction from her consists of an opening compliment- either on an article of clothing or their hair or just straight up "wow you're pretty" does the trick. The girl's responses have ranged from a simple "thanks" to outright jubilation. 100% positive thus far.

The conversation then branches 2 different ways. Sometimes the girl will continue on about herself depending on the specific compliment- hair for example always tends to lead into a 5 minute conversation. This is her time to build rapport but also convey interest; by maintaining interested looks and subtle touching.

The other way is just the simple "thanks" and that's it. That's when she moves on to her next step which is: "can i kiss you?" or "do you wanna make out?"

It's simple. It's casual. Most importantly it's all in good fun. And it works about 50% of the time. Most girls, in our experience, are either straight or gay, but will kiss another girl for the experience. For some, that's it, but for some, they will continue further.

Lately we've been getting a lot of girls who tell us that this has been a secret fantasy of theirs or that they've always wanted to meet people like us- and they'd never tell their friends about it. But 2 strangers who come up to them FEARLESSLY will open up a side of them, and it's very honest and genuine. After that you can talk about pretty much anything, and gauge the girl's interest in coming home with you.

Now, we're no experts. Most of the time it's a makeout, perhaps a little more, but we get a lot of flakes if the girls don't come home with us THAT NIGHT. And you can speculate the reasons but you'll never truly KNOW... But my assumption is that in the moment it's fun and it's an experience. But come Monday morning while at work you're not going to schedule a Threesome on your day planner. At least, not the average girl. And that's just because the interaction is based on that particular energy at that particular time, once the moment has passed it's over. It is by It's nature casual and typically a 1 time idea. It's not as if the girl has found a potential mate that she'd be thinking about seeing again, and ultimately we're a couple, she's technically a third wheel.

Quick tip in regards to the lesbian bar before i end- we've never been. And that's only because of what my lesbian friends and other couples that have tried what we're doing have said: real lesbians will not mess with a man. Most straight girls will mess around with girls for fun or a fantasy, lesbians generally will not do the same with guys. But again as i said we've never been, just some 2nd hand advice from others like us.

Well i hope I've helped provide our perspective. We'd love if you kept us updated! It's always fun to hear how others are doing. Pickup is kinda niche, and this is niche within niche. Have fun and good luck!

suuupreddit · 2016-03-27T23:05:21+00:00

Same concepts from Models apply for the most part.

I've actually learned more from a lesbian than any other person I've met - honesty and comfort with yourself, your sexuality, your attraction to her, and whether or not she's interested in women/experimenting are essential.

If she's not interested/says no/whatever, don't worry about it. She could still be a friend (hell, she could have a friend that'd be down), so don't get bothered by it.

Not endorsing this method (never tried it, seems possibly fun), but I really like what this dude said about a risky opener:

In fact, it is awesome when she says no… because it gives you an opportunity to demonstrate a reality stronger than cobalt steel.

Here’s what you do.

If she says no, you say “ok” in the same tone of voice as if you had offered her a prawn cocktail crisp and she had said “no thank you.” Then you ask her what she thought of Pirates of the Caribbean 3 or something.

Or you talk about the burger you had for breakfast or what the weather was like last tuesday or what-fucking-ever.

I have faith in you, go out and get down!

definitelynotaliar · 2016-03-28T01:10:14+00:00

Same thing as with any gay men. You're going to have to figure out if the girl is into that or not. You'll immediately see discomfort in their body language if you set your intentions straight from the beginning. Say your goodbyes and move onto another girl until you find someone who doesn't seem at all phased by your move. From there on, it's just about applying the same techniques that're mentioned here in this sub

And why tf are you trying to hit on girls when you have a bf? Or is bf for bestfriend?

tkmaximus · 2016-03-27T21:06:20+00:00

I remember /r/fPUA being linked before, might be worth a try

Big_TX · 2016-03-27T21:23:02+00:00

I heard that RSD jeffy's hot seat is largely about pulling 3somes.

Helmet_Icicle · 2016-03-28T05:55:55+00:00

Check out /r/fPUA for a different perspective.

Alternatively, /r/pickup4dykes but it's sparsely populated.

The cross-index of your situation and interests is so narrow you'll likely remain disappointed if you keep randomly trawling with such distant chances at success. Your best bet is joining an online and/or in-person community with similar pastimes.

redfrojoe · 2016-03-28T17:14:29+00:00

Something Like This?

King_Awkward_IV · 2016-03-27T21:36:01+00:00

Don't you just go to a lesbian bar?

ItsOnlyPain · 2016-03-27T19:55:02+00:00

"DTF?"

Title	How do girls pickup other girls??
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Date	March 27, 2016 6:43 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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