Please note, this is mostly outer game techniques. Include ways to your improve inner game so that you won't be the pua reference robot. These are tiny things that can help better your game. But you must be congruent.

NOT MEANT AS A PROCESS GUIDE. TIPS AND TRICKS PULLED FROM DIFFERENT AREAS OF GAME. Include parts and bits into your game to help!

Tips:

Speak slower.

While infield, spend more time with the girl to get to know her (planning to pull).

Reward her with kino.

Lower her standards. Be perfectly fine with yourself.

Thoughts, words, actions aligned.

Whatever you feel, she feels.

It's not what you say, it's the energy behind how you say it.

Whatever comes into your mind, say it. (For the stifled guys)

Don't ask too much questions, make statements.

What you say is interest to you, not the girl.

Cold opening (You're smiling all the time. You seem like girl taking life so easily and relaxed)

Leave space for her to invest! (big one) (Be willing to lose the set, leave silences to let her fill) Guys always want to fill in the awkwardness. Use the 80/20 rule. Beginning of the interaction, you're going to have to speak a lot more. As time goes on, you can settle down and allow her to invest.

If you don't want girl to lose interest, keep the sexual escalation.

False time constraint ("I have to go in like a few minutes, but...xyz").

            Day game opener

High energy speaking, be positive.

Speak loudly with breaking rapport tonality.

Get her attention, "say hey!".

  • I know this is a bit random...
  • Seen you from over there...
  • I was just walking past...
  • I noticed you sitting here...
  • I saw you and you look like you might be interesting. So I had to come and see if your smile matches your personality, are you that cool?

(RSD Concept) Kool-aid man, be music

  • If the opener is dead, be persistent.
  • Don't think out of your head.
  • Be in the moment. Talk personal.
  • Be relevant with her.

  • Disqualification (attraction)

  • Qualification (seduction)

  • Verbally push her away after the hook point.
  • Say whatever comes to mind (Be congruent with surrounding).
  • Tell her what you were doing before you saw her.
  • State your intentions.
  • Introduce yourself.
  • Get her to invest.
  • What I noticed about you was...
  • Tell me about yourself.

KINO :

  • Extended handshake.
  • Stand close to her.
  • Legs shoulder width apart.
  • Eye contact (hold) (IMO, staring into her iris seems less weird. But at the same time, make sure that she breaks eye contact first. You follow).
  • Fluid moving motion, reduce twitching. It shows you are chill, not nervous.

If you think she'll reject your request for # exchange. Pull back before she does

"Wait, what's my name before I give you my number"

            Kool aid man theory

The Kool aid man breaks into a party. Puts himself on the radar and offers value. He doesn't knock on peoples door and ask questions.

"Hey uh can I come in? Sorry I don't mean to bother. I won't be much of a bother, can I join please? Do you guys have anything to drink" NO, DON'T DO THAT!

Bring your idea, personality and opinion to the table! You control the interaction.

            Push-and-Pull/Neg/Disqualifiers

When doing so...

Be playful in your tone.

Don't come off serious.

Positive to negative.

  • You're so X it's just like Y.
  • I love you, i hate you.
  • You're like the most interesting girl I've met in the last hour.
  • Whoa keep your distant, i don't want people to think i like you.
  • To bad i'm gay, because you would be my type.
  • You know what, i'm too toxic for you.
  • Too bad you're not my type because you look really pretty.
            Questions

Assume wrong to replace boring questions. If you assume wrong things about her, she will kindly (hopefully) correct you. That's almost the same as asking questions, but will make it seem less like a interview.

Horrible opener questions

  • [X]How's it going
  • [X]Where are you from

  • [X]What do you do

  • [✓]Hey you're a blonde, you must be asian. (Makes no sense, but at least it engages the girl)

  • [✓]Hey, you're from Japan? (To a tall white blonde girl)

  • [✓]You seem like you work as a waitress? (Bruises egos in a lighthearted way especially if the girl is hot)

            Social Pressure
  • Say/do risque things to risk sets.
  • Leave silences they need to fill.

Turn it into compliance and get her to agree with you. "You must think that I'm so cute".

            How to connect with a girl

She has to that feel you're curious and genuinely interested in her,

  • "That's interesting. Tell me more!"
  • "Do you know what I like about you? You got a nice sense of humour. I hate serious people."

You need to know what you want from a girl (list 5 things)

(These are mine)

  • Sexual
  • Smart
  • Sense of humour
  • Loyalty
  • Maturity
            Non Verbal Game Tips:
  • Lock eyes and pretend to dream into her pupil.
  • High five and "you're cool, come here (hug)".
  • Touch on shoulder when agreeing or expressing.
  • "Rsd Tyler Claw hand" (night game)
  • Fluid moving motion.
  • Look at girls eye with confidence.
  • Walk with shoulders up.
  • Eyes up and looking. When looking around, make sure to move your body the direction your head turns. It makes you look more assertive
            DAY GAME EXTRA:
  • When day-gaming, try to insta-date unless you or the girl has somewhere to go.
  • Learn from your mistakes. Question your rejections and learn from it.
  • Approach blindingly, but don't be like, "oh all i need to do is approach 10 girls, if i get rejected, it is still fine because i still approached". NO! Find out what you did wrong from those rejections, and learn from it! Always learn and analyze after the night or game day. Never analyze while out!
            Female Psychology
  • Girls interpretation of stuff is to make them look better.
  • Don't a ask girl why they're dating him or why they're attracted.
  • Don't try to solve a girls problem ->
  • Steps: Listen, understand, show empathy, take their mind off of it. <-
            How to increase vibe
  • Exercise.
  • Listen to upbeat music.
  • Do something unusual, crazy.
  • Enjoy morning shower.
  • Avoid negative people.
  • Force a smile for 5 minute.
  • Become assertive (Speak up and be heard. Let people know what you want).
            Tips for if you have pushed or teased too far
  • Don't try to explain your jokes.
  • "Sorry, that came out wrong. I must be too comfortable with you"
  • "I was kidding, hope you didn't take that too hard"

And then, move on to next topic.

Mock awkwardness of the situation

            NIGHT GAME EXTRA:

Go in dancing with confidence. Do weird dances in front of girl to catch their attention.

If you catch a girl looking or staring, approach immediately.

(Useful opener if opening girls with group/boyfriend)

  • "Hey! How've you been?" (It will allow the group/boyfriend to think that you "know" her)

(Lines to see compliance)

  • It looks like you're imagining kissing me.
  • What grade did you get in kissing school?

(Verbal escalation)

  • After talking to the girl for a while,
  • Slow down and hold eye contact.
  • Give little pauses, hold eye (sexual tension).
  • Slowly move closer.

(Physical escalation)

  • Both legs touching each other.
  • When moving close to talk to ear, brush cheeks (compliance test).

If she is standing still letting you escalate, then keep going.

Escalate until she shows a red light.

            CONNECTION

(Essential to connection with girl)

  • Emotions.
  • Motivations.
  • Character Traits.

Example:

Girl tells you she moved from Argentina to Sweden. ( You won't go anywhere in the conversation by saying "how do you like it in Sweden?" Or "What do I know about Sweden" )

Here are examples of things to say that will actually impact the conversation: "Oh that's pretty scary but very adventurous, must be very excited" Ask why she's done it ( Maybe war, economics, no family, etc )

When talking to the girl ask yourself: What does that make her feel? Why did she do that? (Motivation) What type of person does that? (Adventurous, boring, extrovert, etc)