If i don't approach i won't be getting a girl, so before i approach I thought if i increase my number of approaches, assume i'll be increasing the number of girls rejecting me and someday these girls gossip to other girls as this guy tried to hit on me and i'm afraid if it spreads like willdfire among girls. Do I end up like a jerk? or It's just my thought? Also imagine you are getting married soon and few girls you approached before came to your marriage by coincidence! how embarrassing. how you guys cope up with this situation?