Approaching A Woman: Why is it so damn difficult?

redinkinc · 2016-05-09T21:10:05+00:00

I actually don't find it htat hard anymore. I'm new to the game, but have made 50+ approaches in the last few weeks and i'm not really that 'nervous' anymore.

I feel less nervous when using a canned opener, but that's more because I know from experience that if I just open with 'hi' and start talking, asking questions etc, I know that the interraction always feels weird. I think UK girls find it strange to be approached still, in lots of situations. Even in a bar, if I give a girl a direct opener and tell her she's hot, no matter how non-creepy and confident and relaxed I try to come across, alot of the time, they still seem kind of confused/surprised that i'm telling them!

But if it's an opener about some fake story or an observation or something, it seems to go better.

Either way, the approach anxiety has dissappeared a lot

sefmz · 2016-05-10T03:54:47+00:00

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What is this?

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CajunBindlestiff · 2016-05-09T21:02:19+00:00

Because you are aware that you are approaching a woman with obvious intentions, whatever they may be, and so are they. Fortunately I am naturally charming and I'm very good with women I meet organically in social situations, but even I feel it's awkward as fuck just walking up to anyone and striking up a conversation because you know that they know you are attracted to them. That's why it's so much easier connecting with someone you were introduced to, you're not putting the attraction out there up front. You can just talk and see where it goes.

atomiswave2 · 2016-05-10T12:17:26+00:00

Because they are stupid bitches!

Title	Approaching A Woman: Why is it so damn difficult?
Author	IntrovertedAlpha
Upvotes	13
Comments	11
Date	May 9, 2016 4:57 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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