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[–]revente 15 points16 points17 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Just be prepared that some of her guy friends are secretely in love with her so will act like little bitches to you.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
In my experience, it can be a red flag. However judging someone by the sex of their friends is dumb.
If the girl is legit and has guy friends, cool, mer bros in your circle.
If the girl gives more red flags related to the guys (like being really touchy and flirty with them, etc) it can mean that she has them just for the attention. If that's the case, run. It's shitty and you will last 2 weeks as the "main" fuckboy. She will then find another one and you will become one of her guy friends.
[–]TheXXL 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Don't be silly... Her friends are most likely her orbiters, she is not fucking any of them
[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Tell that to my ex who fucked two of them.
[–]TheXXL 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I am sure they were not her orbiters like most guys. Still, i am sorry to hear that, but look at the bright side of it, you got rid of her.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I can assume orbiter's meaning, but I'm not positive.
Is this guys that orbit around a girl and have sexual interest in her, but the girl has no interest in them?
What scenario defines an orbiter vs a friend vs a fuckbuddy?
[–]TheXXL 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yes pretty much that.
Well, the orbiter is what you already guessed, a guy that thinks by being a nice guy, never stating interest in the girl, being there for her to show her how good he is, she will one day realize he is the love of her life. Her perspective though is the following: "He gives me attention whenever i need it, i like the fact that he wants to fuck me, so i will let him believe someday i would do him. This makes me feel sexy, and whenever i fuck a real man and he hurts me, this guy will be there to listen to me rambling about how bad that guy was."
This is overdramatized, but shows the direction this goes. Some women do this consciously, some don't.
The Friend is someone that lives his own life, is there for her when she needs him, but she will not overburden him with her shit, this is in the best case mutual. There might be sexual interest, and in some cases it is acted upon, but it's not the dominant reason to be friends.
The fuckboy... well, a term i don't hear often, the most similar thing to that would be in my opinion what a close female friend (who became my fuckbuddy for a short time) told me once about her neverending stream of "fucktoys": a guy that's sole purpose is to satiate her hunger for dick, which by the way is enormous in her case, i am not exaggerating when i say 5 different guys per week is for her being in bad shape...
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
5 different guys per week is for her, being in bad shape
woah.
Anyway,
Thanks for the clarification there.
[–]Umbrifer 1 point2 points3 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Be prepared for most of your correspondence with this girl to be seen by them. She will ask them whenever she doesn't get you and assuming that this group of guy griends is filled with orbiters (which they usually are) expect at least some of them to try and sabotage your game, unless you understand how to handle that shit.
Also, you girl knows she can pick up plenty of guys. Be prepared for shit tests in that vein. Jealousy games , etc.
[–]fakenamehere011 points 10 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Yah, I'm thinking a bit more shit tests might be in store, and that should be careful to not show her too much attention (since her male friends probably do a lot of that and I need to remain different than them).
[–]Umbrifer 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hate to play devils advocate but there is also the chance that she is already sleeping with one of them and simply not telling you.
[–]DaygameCoach 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hot women often have orbiters. It's just the way things are. If you are in a exclusive relationship and you trust her, it's cool. If it's a casual relationship and she is sleeping with her friends, it's still cool, but they aren't orbiters (but FWBs or something).
Either way, nothing to worry about as long as you are clear in your intent so that you are on the same page.
[–]tamilgangster 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
There are 3 types 1) Hot chicks with orbiters 2) emotionally disturbed hates other women 3) Girl whose social and friends with everyone both guys and girls
type 3, make good wingmen, and are a good source of advice
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