would like some feedback on my appearance

Goofydoodle · 2016-05-15T22:37:30+00:00

I got no matches on tinder for a week, felt real shit. Then they slowly started trickling in and im reaching 20 now. Give it a week or so then come back.

Gregger90 · 2016-05-15T22:49:24+00:00

If you are using that picture on tinder you aren't doing yourself any favors. It's hard to know what you actually look like and you look tensed. Post the images you use for tinder.

Also don't read into it. I'm an reasonably attractive man that is often described as cute. No real problems irl but get few matches on tinder. It's ruthless. Even Brad Pitt wouldn't get 100% matches.

Johnny_Cocaine · 2016-05-16T04:29:08+00:00

I'm not gay, but you're a good looking dude. I wouldn't say a hunk, but you're better looking than most guys. I'd say a 7.5. Maybe an 8 with the right clothes.

Maybe try a goatee instead? try smiling? dunno. I don't see anything wrong with your look.

Go look at several, so called "good looking" actors, and you're better looking than many of them, so I wouldn't get any negative thoughts in my head if I were you.

its_all_perspective · 2016-05-15T22:47:44+00:00

/r/rateme

katalis · 2016-05-16T05:00:56+00:00

Dunno about your aesthetics but I am gonna talk about your body language.

You look tense. Not comfortable. You look like you are not having fun at all, the exact opposite of the two girls on the photo. I can tell all this by your eyes. A true smile is made with eyes. And your eyes tell something like "Yey... Fun... So. Cool."

You remind me to those people who are dragged by their friends to a club or a festival which they hate, and spend the whole night feeling shit because that is not their thing.

Generally, introvert people don't enjoy in crowded noisy places like those and they only go because their friends asked.

Also, your head is inclined to one side and I would say even forward. That can be percived as summision, lack of dominance.

It's very subtle but when a person tries to lean forward or archer his back, it can mean a way of hiding. Like trying to fill the lesser space possible, to make yourself tiny.

And finally, your arms. You are grabbing the people at the photo like they are your family. You don't show that you are a man with sexual desires, but more like those are your happy family.

This is all my opinion and I am by no means an expert.

Title	would like some feedback on my appearance
Author	statclasssucks
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	May 15, 2016 8:58 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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