I usually just like to lurk around here but I figured I'd drop by and gather some opinions / suggestions. Quick background: went to HS with this chick, didn't really talk to her. Chilled with her at school in college, she kind of clung to my little clique. Probably had the chance to hit it off with her but I was fresh out of a LTR with my son's mom, wasn't even remotely interested in fucking around at the time. She's hit me up on and off from time to time since then, seems to do the whole like and/or comment on anything I put on Facebook thing when she does.
Current times. She asked me if she could pay me to fix her webcam last week. Between her desperation for a quick solution and a few other hints I caught onto the fact that she's working as a cam girl. Asked her, she told me straight up. Was chilled about it, didn't get all pervy and shit. Haven't even tried to look her up to be honest. She's been working out so she went from probably a 7 on my scale straight up to a 9.
She's offering to pay me to help build & maintain a private (exclusively her) site. I don't think she's gonna be particularly successful so the 10% of profits she's offering doesn't sound that appealing to me, but she's also paying some cash upfront (the 10% is for maintenance after the fact). All that being said, she's hit me up for casual conversation a few times. Asked her at one point where I should take another girl out to and since then she's hit me up probably at least once every few days "just to chat." I tend to kind of blow it off, I don't like to do "just chatting." Probably starting to see where I'm going with this.
Now, I don't think I'm hardcore RP. I only rarely work out (admittedly something I'm working on, but it's hard to find time) though I haven't ever really had to be fit to get what I want. I also don't like spinning plates, I keep myself busy in other ways and an every now and again fuck is fine with me. It's hard enough to do that being that I'm a single Dad. The not liking spinning plates is what's important here, because I typically only fuck around with one girl at a time until either we shack up or I find something better.
Dilemma: She's a cam girl. Otherwise I wouldn't have any reason to think ill of her. To be honest, even that doesn't really bother me. I've dated strippers and at least they actually have to grind on mother fuckers, this girl doesn't have to physically touch anyone (though she does sell her panties, but still... doesn't really bother me). Is it bad that this doesn't bother me and is it something I should be concerned about?
Request for suggestion: If I should, how the fuck do I move in on this? My typical hook-up usually involves someone I've been talking to face-to-face for a minute. Me and this girl used to chill, but other than fixing her computer we haven't really hung out in person in a couple years.
EDIT: Suggestion request was stupid. Someone pointed that out to me.
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