(Warning: might be a bit long)

I've only posted once in here before quite recently, I'm a 49 yr old white male, fairly attractive (6 maybe?) and I've recently scored with a 24 yr old woman. This has my confidence level at an all-time high for me. If you read the other posts I have just not been very successful with women my entire life but I'm a firm believer in always learning & striving to get better in everything I do. This event happened on Thursday evening.

One of my co-workers and I drove down to Florida on Thursday to attend a conference on Friday. He is a bit older than me, and a very religious man and we wanted to go get some dinner so I knew out of respect for him that I wouldn't be "gaming" so I decided to make a learning experience out of it.

We found a local seafood joint and the place was packed. Walking in the front door is where I met the HB8, we'll call her "Cindy". Cindy was an absolute little stunner, 5ft nothing, long blonde hair, wearing these tight little white shorts that showed off her bubble ass, she's was just a real cutie. My best guess is she couldn't have been no older than 23, we're in a college town so I imagine she's in school there.

Cindy asked if we would mind sitting right behind the hostess station at a high top since it was so crowded, I just smiled very sincerely at her and asked "You mean I get to sit near you all evening?" She laughed and said yes, she would keep me company (?)..She had some sort of brace on her arm and we made small talk about it for just a moment then she gave us our menu's and away she went. It's important to note that from that point until the end of our dinner, I didn't interact or even look at her at all even though she was right behind me, or walking past us for the whole time. I just didn't acknowledge her at all, I really wasn't thinking about it but I did note that every time she was near my "religious" friend about fell out of his chair trying to look at her ass (really? c'mon lol) anyway, on the with the evening.

I wasn't interacting with Cindy simply because I was focused on an experiment. I was going to make eye contact with every woman in my field of vision and hold it for as long as they would regardless of their age or hotness. It was very entertaining to say the least. I must have done it with about 12-15 different women and the most interesting thing I learned for me was the younger women were much more receptive than the mature women, up to a point anyway, old women love it too lol. As my friend and I talked I would just scan from woman to woman and wait for them to look in my direction. There were a few who never did and that's just normal. But for those that did, as soon as they looked at me I locked eyes with them and just gave them a little smirk. In every single case I made sure THEY broke the eye contact, not me. Once that initial contact was made, every time I returned my gaze to them, almost every single one of them were looking at me waiting for the next engagement, and those that weren't noticed almost immediately when I was looking at them and we'd do it again.

There was one particular young lady (maybe a smidge too young but I wasn't do anything but eye contact) who was just really into it. It started because she was doing something with her menu and she accidentally threw some napkins in my general direction. She had this look on her face of "Oh no, what did I do" but when she saw me looking at her I just kind of laughed a little and gave her this look of "Why are you throwing napkins at me?"..she laughed and from then on she couldn't keep her eyes off of me. She was sitting with another young woman who was about a 4 and I don't know what she said to her but from that point on I had both their attentions, it was awesome lol.

So my buddy & I finished our meals and Cindy comes back and just being nice grabs our empty plates, I just give her another smile and say thank you and she gives me this look, I don't know how to even describe it. She takes our stuff to the kitchen and on the way back I catch her eye and just kind of motion with my head for her to come back. She comes around from behind me and I just look at her and very teasingly say "I'm very upset with you" She gets very serious for a second and asks what she did wrong and I tell her "You said you were going to keep me company and I ended up having to talk to his ugly mug all evening" which causes her to start laughing. She tells me "but I was right here all evening and you didn't say anything"....I give her this very stern look with a playful little smirk and tell her "Don't you lie to me, I know better" and I swear she gushed. She had her hands clasped right in front of her crotch and she started literally squirming, her face turned beat red and we both just laughed. I turned back to my friend and he had the funniest look on his face and he asked what I said to make her do that and I just told him I was having a little harmless fun.

We got up to leave and little Cindy had run off somewhere so the other hostess that was working there thanked us and I told her to tell the little handicap girl (the brace on her arm, remember?) that I said goodbye and made some joke about her taking up one of the handicap parking spots and then we left. I didn't really expect the girl to really tell her anything and I was just leaving having had a fun experiment night but as we're walking across the parking lot my friend says "hey, she's chasing after you saying goodbye". The girl actually came out of the restaurant to chase me down and say goodbye and I knew right then that I could have had her. I said good bye to her, I don't think I'll ever be in that town again and with my friend along I just didn't think was appropriate for me to close with such a young woman but I knew I could. I don't regret walking away for a second, I learned some very valuable lessons and there are plenty of little HB's out there to catch.

So, what did I learn?: 1. Confidence is king 2. Eye contact, make it, smile and don't break it, period. 3. Humor - not just telling jokes, little playful smirks while making eye contact goes a long long way (even with girls you already know). 4. Don't act like you're trying to get with them, act like you just are enjoying the now. 5. Own the place. All the women I made eye contact with, some were with bf's, husbands, dates, I don't know and didn't care. It was my place and they were in it.

Sorry if it was too long, just wanted to share.