One of the biggest mistakes people make when they delve into pickup is to drown themselves in book after book, video after video. Theory should only be a supplement to your game, not the basis of it.

Develop your own game and let the the theory guide you in the right direction. If you flood your head with this guy's advice and this person's view, and this fucker's tips you begin to lose yourself and you're going to end up failing because you're trying to be something you're not. You become this sort of Voltron of game. Accept your flaws in game and don't be afraid to put it out there that you don't know what you're doing. In my experience, women appreciate men who are genuine and honest. It makes them feel at ease.

Lastly, keep it simple. For fucks sake keep it simple. In the end, it's just talking to a pretty girl. Once you break through the initial barrier, you come to realize that these women are just like you and I.

Things you need to do game:

  • Fearlessness

  • Persistence

  • Calm

The rest will follow suit. Pickup is just like sports, the second you start trying too hard and micromanaging your game, you'll get in a rut.