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Polite way to restart communication?

madnus · 2016-08-08T19:32:48+00:00

Talked to a girl awhile back but never went anywhere as i was seeing others, i could have but i didnt out much effort in, i kind of forgot about her. Fast...

madnus

August 8, 2016

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Title	Polite way to restart communication?
Author	madnus
Upvotes	11
Comments	25
Date	August 8, 2016 7:32 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4ws0e6/polite_way_to_restart_communication/
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Okay, my apologies Cassanova. I bow to your superior knowledge....

There's a large difference in what I said. The context and outcome is different. How can you not understand that?

Yours sounds off. OP does not know the girl that well, as I have said. Unless he can confirm otherwise, then he has no reason to truly miss her. Like you mentioned earlier, "girls aren't dumb". You're right, because he had a whole month to contact her and he didn't, so why would she fall for his shit?

Also, there is nothing wrong whatsoever with a simple "hi, how's it going?". It doesn't have to be those words exactly, as long as it is a neutral tone to see if she is responsive. Anything else could be considered manipulation. The context he has provided us with is that he was talking to a girl, but they weren't romantically linked, and if there was any serious potential there he would not be posting this in here. He pure and simple just wants to fuck.

I can't even believe I'm explaining myself to you. This is just common sense. Fine, let him say "I missed you" and let us see how she reacts, haha. In my opinion, he needs to move on to another girl.

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