How do you determine when a girl wants you to talk to her by her body language?

kinpsychosis · 2016-08-22T12:18:31+00:00

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coftsock · 2016-08-22T10:42:31+00:00

When she keeps looking at you. Easy

letsgetrandy · 2016-08-22T11:47:26+00:00

Eye contact, hair touching, showing you her boobs, the usual...

2016-08-22T13:26:21+00:00

They usually orient their body towards you when you're nearby a lot more. They'll flip their hair to draw your attention or outright bump into you on "accident". For the more assertive ones they'll just start talking to you. The best indicator she wants to talk though is eye contact, once she makes it for 1-3 seconds that's her initiating courtship subtly. Refer to the definitive guide of body language's chapter on courtship signals.

revente · 2016-08-22T13:34:35+00:00

You can try to use clues to determine if she is interested, but sometimes it will be much easier if you start talking to her anyway and don't guess much.

chewbacaflocka · 2016-08-22T15:02:26+00:00

Don't worry about if she wants to or not. Just talk to her and give her reason to want to talk to you.

Physical attraction is helpful, but that isn't typically what is going to win her over. You've got to be socially attractive above all.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-08-22T20:49:44+00:00

It barely matters, you can't really determine anything until you talk to her.

EASYWAYtoReddit · 2016-08-23T03:30:22+00:00

Every girl wants to talk to you until they make it clear they don't.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-08-23T13:30:16+00:00

How do we, men, determine when you want us to chase and talk to you?

You have this ass-backwards. Some girls will occasionally hit you over the head with their obviousness, but you don't determine this beforehand. It's a losing game to sit there and try to look for "signs" and try to "determine" interest before you interact with someone. This sub and AskSeddit are both literally littered with posts from guys who waited too late to try for a girl because they sat back and catered to fear, trying to figure out if someone was interested instead of going in and finding out.

You just go in. And the girl will literally show you whether or not she wants to interact with you. **This is in so much of the material in the sidebar and the top posts.

2016-08-23T20:27:03+00:00

We've covered the WHEN, but how do you determenine the WHO to approach ? I mean there is overwhelming choice, I find it difficult to determine what criteria to use on what women, I mean if I follow my dick and use 'fuckable' as the leading criteria then I have to approach and talk to 90% of the women I see. Usually I'm just goddamn horny and just want to fuck any '6' I see walking around, but then I feel guilty for thinking this way and pass. What to use and stick to; fuckable, hot, interesting, sweet or a combination of everything ?. I have to overcome a lot of anxiety first to approach anyone, so if I do I have to be goddamn sure I actually find this women even mildly interesting. So only approach when she shows interest with her body language ánd if I find her attractive ?

2016-08-23T01:46:27+00:00

When you get into the actual conversation the feet never lie. We've been trained to make our face appear like we're interested and even our voice but look at the feet. They're pointed at you, she's interested, she's crossing her legs, she's really interested, she's pointing a foot away towards some sort of exit, gtfo.

I_Main_TwistedFate · 2016-08-23T03:03:43+00:00

If you make eye contact and she smiles is this a sign?

Title	How do you determine when a girl wants you to talk to her by her body language?
Author	cagui18
Upvotes	65
Comments	17
Date	August 22, 2016 9:10 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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