What has been your biggest regret(s) during your seduction journey?

IronManSeduction · 2016-09-06T19:16:14+00:00

This is a really good question.

The biggest regret that I've had on the seduction journey, especially during the beginning, is putting too much time into it.

I think many of us have this regret to some degree. We spend a lot of time reading on seduction, thinking about it, changing our life around it. It has become a substantial part of our lives.

It's easy to forget that we have a life outside of seduction. That not everything we do should be catered towards improving with women.

At the end of the day, I've seen more success when I maintain seduction as just simply one part of my life, among other parts. I'm not always on the lookout for approachable women. I'm not always seeking to ask out every attractive woman I speak to.

In a sense, seduction/pua can very easily take over your life if you let it. My biggest regret was that I did let it take over my life when I first started.

Turlast · 2016-09-06T21:36:55+00:00

Holding myself back out of fear.

dking168 · 2016-09-06T21:48:18+00:00

Not doing it sooner.

thejoyfulkangaroo · 2016-09-06T21:46:52+00:00

Getting good at it then getting a girlfriend. Just a regret on a purely seduction basis. Now I help my friends talk to women, it's actually more fun now sometimes.

SeedGoose · 2016-09-07T06:38:32+00:00

I have three:

1 Not starting to get serious with this shit way sooner. I discovered this sub two years ago (last year of high school, now sophomore in college), but I only got serious with getting better with dating half a year ago. In the last three months I have made the most progress in dating and life, which I'm definitely glad with, but it could have been much more by now.

2 Not approaching when I should be. Regret is way worse than rejection. By far.

3 Not closing. Doesn't matter what type of close. Facebook, number, kiss, F-close, whatever. It's better then not closing at all. I learned this the hard way. Always be closing.

Aegisx12 · 2016-09-06T23:38:46+00:00

Regretting reading 2 whole years of theorie only to find out that it's really hard, to use it naturally/remembering the 'skills/technics' Also going in with training/lose mentality, not going full in and risking something in order to gain valueable experience ...yea playing too safe. At the beginning I got 2 dates out of 30numbers and zero kiss close(don't even mention ONS...) despite going to nightclubs every weekend. Yea I sucked at this...

darthjedibinks · 2016-09-07T02:29:38+00:00

I started the journey after my girlfriend left me. I just wanted to bang every hot girl on road as a way to get back on her. This kind of a motivation really destroyed me in many ways. It instilled in me that every girl is a whore waiting to be fucked.

Dear God, how wrong I was! I was really immature when I started the journey. Slowly when I started to let go of her, I came to my senses. I had been a total shit all these days.

It was around this time I understood that seduction does not mean bang every girl you want but to improve yourself constantly, everyday, making yourself attractive and respecting others as they are.

I wish I had started on the right foot but better late than never

listerinefreak · 2016-09-07T16:29:55+00:00

No thinking quickly and lacking of "that malice". I never knew my school crush had similar feelings for me until she confessed it to me a couple of months before she got married.

Here's an advice from a guy that overthinks shit too much: just fucking do it.

Edit: typo.

davidyapdy · 2016-09-07T06:36:52+00:00

When she told me she want to follow me back home and I was shock that I game so well and I say no because I got "stuff" to do.

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-09-06T19:06:29+00:00

hard to regret things in the past. can only regret things in the present and future.

Title	What has been your biggest regret(s) during your seduction journey?
Author	thedavida71
Upvotes	11
Comments	17
Date	September 6, 2016 6:58 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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