Guys with high lay counts, how did you commonly get your lays?

ineedednewaccount · 2016-09-20T18:14:59+00:00

i started by not calling them lays

jimmyelgent · 2016-09-20T18:24:57+00:00

Most definitely not talking about myself, but nowadays it seems it's all about tinder or social circle.

Going out to bars and getting laid with consistency is not something i've ever seen with my own eyes, and I have lots of friends! A few of my exceptionally good looking friends done OK with it, but typically the girls would approach them!!

Clyde_Frag · 2016-09-20T21:05:10+00:00

Who gives a fuck about "lay counts"?

rmbarnes · 2016-09-20T19:50:52+00:00

I'm not quite in 3 figures yet, but close to it, not sure if that counts as high...

Anyway for me it was mainly 50% online dating (Pof and a bit of tinder) and 50% cold approach in clubs, but I did get a few lays from Daygame and social circle and that's it.

Tinder / Pof don't work for me anymore like they used to now I'm mid 30s (or maybe my standards have gone up).

Big_TX · 2016-09-20T23:05:58+00:00

I've never really tried it myself.

Go try see what things are like for yourself

natephant · 2016-09-20T23:01:35+00:00

If you're a bartender and you're having trouble getting laid there is a lot of work to be done.

Goes who give their number to the bartender 90% of the time are not Looking to go out on a date. They are looking to screw.

They want you to text them when you're going to be at the bar... So they can get hooked up with drinks.... And go home with you when your shift ends.

JediMindset · 2016-09-21T11:27:51+00:00

I've gotten 6 numbers from girls at stoplights, and I've banged all of them. I am not joking. I think the more unlikely place you get a number, the more intrigued a girl can be. I got a girl's number yesterday in a parking lot of a grocery store that I ended up walking next to and that's looking really promising. I think bars and clubs have this creepy vibe to them and they make me uncomfortable. I also bang a lot of girls from Hotornot. I've found that to be the best dating site, way better than Tinder or POF or Okcupid. I have banged girls from bars but it's just not worth the money, time, effort, and creepiness vibe from a bunch of other guys trying to get laid if that makes sense.

This is a little off topic, but I hate when a girl wants to go to a bar after I get her number for a date or something. Like can we do anything besides drink some overpriced alcohol then potentially have to drive, someone risking a DUI... and then if she tries to make me dance or some lame shit like that and I just want to be like, can we just drink at my house for less than half the price and not deal with all these stupid annoying people around us?

Anyway, my whole style is I can get a girl's number wherever, whenever. I had one girl at the stoplight tell me after I got her number, "Wow you've got balls dude!" and gave me a huge smile. I mean literally at a red light I roll my window down and say "Hey can I have your number?" Sounds crazy right? Works for me though. I have not gotten turned down yet in this fashion, knock on wood.

Title	Guys with high lay counts, how did you commonly get your lays?
Author	ShallITinder
Upvotes	7
Comments	24
Date	September 20, 2016 5:50 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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