talk to girls at parties?

newtothelyte · 2016-09-28T20:13:03+00:00

If you go in to a party with the sole mindset of "I'm coming here to fuck bitches" then you're almost always going to fail. You start becoming goal oriented on sex, and then you start to do creepy things. Girls can detect these sex driven kind of guys within seconds, and believe me they're on high alert at parties. So be cool and laid back. Obviously, we all go to these things to meet hot girls and bang them, but your intentions should be:

A) To have fun

B) Talk to as many girls as possible

C) Don't get too drunk or shitfaced

D) Be yourself

Do these things and you'll find pulling girls is much easier. Having fun is the most important part because people will naturally be attracted to you. The key is to not get intimidated by the social situation and just let loose.

Chad_PUA · 2016-09-28T21:38:17+00:00

"Do you like macaroni?" always works for me. In fact, I don't think I've ever not-smashed after opening with that

puabookworm · 2016-09-28T20:53:15+00:00

Don't try to hold long conversations with girls. Go in with no expectations, talk to everyone, be friendly and social, and make your goal to just practice talking to girls, not to actually get laid (at least for now).

If you go in with the mindset of "I'm lonely, I want to get laid, please like me" you're going to come off as desperate and the girls are not going to be interested.

If you go in with the mindset of "I'm just here to be social and have fun and chat with people", girls will enjoy talking to you, and maybe something will happen.

Then, eventually, as you get more comfortable and confident, and those feelings of desperation and loneliness start to go away, you can start "trying" to actually get laid. But it needs to come from a place of confidence, not from a place of desperation.

Once you've made talking to girls (with no care for the outcome) a normal part of your life, that's when you can come back and ask for more specific advice on "how to get laid". Think of it like weight-lifting- If you're a beginner and ask for advice on how to life 200lbs, we're going to tell you to start with 50lbs until you're comfortable, and then come back for more advice.

TheOtherWalternate · 2016-09-28T19:18:41+00:00

People love talking about themselves. Get the person to talk about themself. Ask them how their day went, what music they like, something. Then LISTEN to what they say. While you're listening, look them in the eye. Guy or girl, eye contact is a sign of interest and respect. From there, try to go deeper. If they like Drake as a rap artist ask them things like why and what their favorite song is. If conversing like this feels uncomfortable or weird, keep doing it until it becomes second nature and comfortable.

If you agree with the person, guy or girl, go for a high five/fist pound/idk what. It's just a nice gesture to do in general, and you can build on that with girls you are interested in. From there just escalate with the girl you're interested in.

Woujo · 2016-09-28T21:29:27+00:00

I really just want to hook up with a girl because I broke up 4 months ago and feeling really lonely

This is the mindset that makes girls not want to fuck you.

What are some things i should say or do in order to get that one girl interested in me??

You can't say anything to a girl to make her like you. She either likes your she doesn't.

What you CAN do, is form an emotional connection with her. Sometimes you'll do that and she still won't fuck you, but you're definitely not fucking without an emotional connection. If you're too impatient for that, and just want to fuck, then go get a prostitute.

the way to form an emotional connection is to talk about deep shit both of you are interested in.

blackandebony · 2016-09-28T22:26:49+00:00

Wow really helpful tips. Really do appreciate that and will definitely try to loosen myself up

msmiitz · 2016-10-01T14:00:45+00:00

anything . anything pleasurable that your mind can come up with. It's more about letting loose

Eclips3e · 2016-09-28T20:43:40+00:00

Tinder my friend

Title	talk to girls at parties?
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Date	September 28, 2016 6:57 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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