How often do you have sex with your fwb?

JefemanG · 2016-10-17T15:41:24+00:00

Depends on the girl. I'd say once a week is about right. I've had as little as once a month and as much as 4 times a week.

The norm is right around 1 a week. I don't think frequency matters as much as the scenario (do you have a life? Are you fun? Etc) and how you 2 are together.

Snazzy_Serval · 2016-10-17T16:34:29+00:00

Back when I had a FWB she would come over one night a week and leave around 4pm the next day.

On average we'd have sex 4-6 times in that time period.

Damn that was fun.

ShinyAndChrome- · 2016-10-17T21:12:48+00:00

Can having sex too occasionally reduce the interest of one of the parties?

holy crap is this real life parodying itself?

dude if you're in a fwb thing, just text them when you're horny! that's the whole point! i've never read something more insecure and self-conscious lol.

this whole sub needs to take one giant collective chill pill. we got one post already where a dude knows that 14 minutes passed between a text he sent and the time he got a response. like just smoke a bowl, CTFO.

I just... omg. I like that this sub isn't the misogynistic shit hole it once was, but this is just a new level of... wow just wow

ok i'm done being a dick time for my real answer

if anything, having sex too occasionally risks one or both of the parties yearning for MORE than just an fwb.

i'd say what reduces interest is unwanted contact outside of the sex. if you're constantly hitting her up with boyfriend-type texts, that may put her off.

i've only been in fwbs, and not like because i'm ~~an old dirty~~ a cold hearted bastard, i'm mainly just recently over some lifelong social anxiety and i had tended to end up with women i loved to fuck but couldn't have a conversation with. but to get to my point, what has happened at least twice is the fwb got too much into that relationshipish-but-not-really territory and it ended with pretty hurt feelings on BOTH sides - it's so weird to be in love with someone but not want to be in a relationship with them, to swoon at the thought of them, but also intensely desire to break up with them because you long for something more "real"

tl dr

just CHILL MAN, don't do anything stupid, and you'll be peachy-cream

my dos cientos.

2016-10-19T23:56:10+00:00

About once a week because of our very busy work schedules. Basically we fuck every time we see each other.

Aeon199 · 2016-10-18T04:40:29+00:00

Anyone here react with envy when seeing this?

Come on now. Show us how to get a FWB. Especially when you're an autistic loser. I'm sure it can be done. I need to know, anyway.

Title	How often do you have sex with your fwb?
Author	fitnessfreak6
Upvotes	13
Comments	10
Date	October 17, 2016 11:41 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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ok i'm done being a dick time for my real answer

tl dr