Hello Seddit, this is a backup, but I’ve probably written like 10 comments in my life, but this is something I am so passionate about, that im on my laptop typing this up. I hope it changes the lives of one of you. It’s very long, but PLEASE read it all, I’m gonna write my heart out.

Me: I’m a 5’7 African American guy and I am a boss in life. I would say I am about a 6/7 in attractive if im being realistic. I don’t find this to be demeaning, let’s face it. The setup of people’s facial features are subconsciously appealing or unappealing to the human eye. Really symmetrical faces are “hot.” Seeing as many people as I’ve seen. I can safely say that. If I were to vote myself out of TOTAL attractiveness, I would say im a 9. This includes my humor, personality, and what value I bring to other humans.

A lot of you are already getting a “cocky” vibe from me. Are you? That’s your first problem. What have i really said? All I’ve said is I believe I am a great person with great aspects that women might like. I can’t compliment myself? But if I said, yea I’m okay or im a loser, no one bats an eye. Self-appreciation is key!!!!! Don’t go overboard but you NEED to compliment yourself daily. I tell people I’m awesome whenever they ask. I don’t down play myself. I don’t brag, I simply exert that I am content with myself, as easily as I would complement someone else

How did I get here? We all know what they say : GO TO THE GYM, BUY NICE CLOTHES. To an extent they are true. Think about this, If you REALLY wanted to be in the best shape f your life next year, you COULD be. Will you be? Probably not. You’re lazy yet want amazing results. But a year of working out 3x a week and you 100% could be. Does that not excite you? I think we really under estimate what we can accomplish. Answer this: what would make you happy in life? Let’s say your answer is a girlfriend. Okay. How? Attract women. How? Be attractive. How? Look like you put effort in looking nice externally while focusing on how to be at peace with yourself. How? This is important.

To me , I am my happiest when I know EVERYDAY I WORK TOWARDS BEING A BETTER ME. I’m sure you’ll have better luck with women on a day where you knocked off 10 things on your task list, then when you avoided it all and played xbox all day. It’s weird. Your energy is what you attract. Just smiling when you’re by yourself in the mall, walking slow, talking slow. I won’t go into that jumbo, it’s been said a million times. YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU WANT. Sounds so cliché right? That’s the problem, such a true fact has been run into the ground to where you blank it out. There is no reason in the world you can’t get what you want. NONE. What goes through your mind when you think of me asking you to write a list? Probably “Ugh everyone says that, ill just do it mentally” That’s why you don’t succeed! These cliché things are the things you really need to listen to. Writing lists changed my life. I bought a white board and wrote down my goals.

Waking up and seeing my goals in WRITING made it real. And I did it. I had “read a book” on my board for months before I actually got one. Now I read 30 min a day and I feel great just typing that. Don’t be confident to get girls. Be confident as a lifestyle! The girls will come. I swear. I loved typing this and I would type more but it’s already too long. I love you all. PLEASE PM if you need advice. I want to change lives. Go out and do it. Eliminate excuses

EDIT: I'm filled with joy that some of you got something out of what I wrote! I loved connecting with you all, keep the PMs coming! Also, if you have other topics you want me to go into, I can make another post!