So girls that i know were talking about how i get rejected then flirt with different girls or there friends and then get rejected flirt with some other girl or friend basically repeat the process. They said thats being a idiot or a fuckboy. What do they mean by this because i am so confused and this might be the reason why i cant be successful with women, i see this as moving on or a guy who loves talking to girls. This sub reddit basically tells me that its ok talking to mutiple girls and that girls find that attractive but it isnt working out for me.

Do they see this as desperate, being a creep,or neediness? They never said any of those but just idiot or a fuckboy.