Going on a tinder coffee date Saturday. How do I let her know that I'm not looking for anything serious?

daphxo · 2016-12-08T05:23:09+00:00

"Hey. So I felt you should know, I am not looking for anything serious. Just want to keep it real casual."

Be honest about it. And don't wait too long into the meet-up to let her know. If she is looking for something serious, then she may get mad and accuse you of 'leading her on'. And you may want to put that on your Tinder profile thing. That way no one walks into a date and get blindsided.

lissybaby001 · 2016-12-08T12:35:57+00:00

Hmm... I have always been under the assumption that if someone was hooking up via Tinder, it was already implied they did not want anything serious. I think you're in the clear.

rawbface · 2016-12-08T15:38:28+00:00

Tinder coffee date

"Going to McDonald's later today. How do I let the cashier know that I'm looking for a burger?"

t_11 · 2016-12-08T20:07:39+00:00

To my experience is tough. I don't think you should tell her in any way that you're interested in just sex. You should also not say you're not looking for a relationship. Tell her you are happy you met her and you wanna get to know her better. Don't tell her your intentions and you're probably not gonna find out hers. After you close and don't wanna really commit. Tell her you cant. I feel as if in any situation, commitment should only be discussed after a quite a few dates and sex.

jcollazos93 · 2016-12-08T22:06:39+00:00

the best way to let her know youre not serious is to meet her on tinder.

sambo_22 · 2016-12-08T15:27:16+00:00

Ask the coffee shop to put on 'girls just wanna have fun'. When it gets to "that's all they really want", start pointing at her and clap your hands intermittently. At the end of the song whisper "that's all I really want". She should get the point and it'll be funny (win-win).

Title	Going on a tinder coffee date Saturday. How do I let her know that I'm not looking for anything serious?
Author	amazonian_snu_snu
Upvotes	7
Comments	12
Date	December 8, 2016 5:03 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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