Why do some girls take their friends away when you approach in a club?

revente · 2017-01-18T13:59:14+00:00

Sometimes they pull them away because they think their friend could do better. Or the guy looks like he's just a creep. Or they just didn't go to the club to look for a guy. Or they just don't want to dance with strangers. Many different reasons. Don't let it get you down though and don't think you're ugly just because a girl was pulled away. Maybe try going with a friend so you don't come off like a weirdo going alone?

angel_shark · 2017-01-18T15:30:32+00:00

I was kinda orbiting?

This is most likely why. Girls will notice almost immediately when a guy is hovering and trying to make eye contact. The longer it occurs the more of a turnoff it is for them. An approach to a group should within seconds of locking eyes with a girl. I challenge you to try that next time you are in the club. You will see results.

Xanarxses · 2017-01-18T16:15:40+00:00

Maybe you looked like you were searching for kidneys and livers.

revente · 2017-01-18T13:28:15+00:00

Idk but its always an ugly girl who pulls away the hottie. Jelousy maybe?

ThatBoyAgain · 2017-01-18T16:45:33+00:00

I never pulled and couple nights ago I opened and was vibing with these two girls in smoking area of night club. 30 mins later one of them leans in close and asks me 'Do you like insertothergirlsnameshere? I can help you get her.'

Not knowing how to actually pull I only got a #-close; the thing I did was having a not giving a fuck mentality was laid back the whole set. Also I cold read like shit.

Keep approaching brother, miracles will happen!

PDX_PUA · 2017-01-18T19:27:53+00:00

You were 'orbiting' and trying to dance next to women on the dance floor.

Read that sentence again. I dont think there is a post on this entire subreddit that would approve of this pick up tactic. There are so many better options and tools at your disposal.

If you're wondering why they pulled their friend away, its pretty obvious, youre bein' creepy. Im not trying to insult you, but just state the facts.

Where was your wingman? Why werent you approaching? Why not use the tools outlined here to try better techniques? What were you wearing? These things could help give better insight into your night and thus allow us to give appropriate advice.

Simply, if youre going to bother with going out to a club, dont waste time orbiting or trying the worst ways to pick up women. Study and prepare!

imstartingover · 2017-01-18T21:10:00+00:00

there is no one single reason. ask yourself. you were there. you probably already know but just want to hear it from someone else.

oashworth · 2017-01-18T13:57:39+00:00

you do have to talk to the group so that they see you as someone of value. Also try putting a false time constraint on (maybe make sure that their friends hear too) so that they dont think you will be there long. Once they are hooked in by what you are saying and you are DHV then it shouldnt happen as often.

Looks do matter but confidence is key

Title	Why do some girls take their friends away when you approach in a club?
Author	GallowBall
Upvotes	23
Comments	14
Date	January 18, 2017 1:13 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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