I started making it a habit to do at least one approach a day, and one longer session with a wingman (3-4 hours) on weekends.

When I approach a girl, there's a lot of things that immediately rush to my head so I wanted to focus on only one thing at a time then work my way up. At the moment it looks like this:

  • Focus on approaching with a smile
  • Talk loudly and clearly
  • Introduce yourself with a handshake
  • Find out what she's doing and where she's going
  • Use statements of intent (show her its a man-woman interaction and be direct)
  • Get the number
  • Make firm plans immediately after getting the number

For the time being, I'll just approach with a smile, add value with a short interaction then leave. I want to work my way up by focusing on one of these things at a time