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[–]_TurnuptheSun_ 9 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Why don't you find out? If a girl looks at you, and smiles at you, then yes, she is definitely interested in at least talking to you, so smile back, grab your balls, and go talk to her. You could say something like "Hey, you caught my eye and you made me smile. I have to run soon, but do you study here..... yadayadayada"
When you introduce yourself, it's important to first, give a false time-constraint because the girls knows that she can get out of the conversation at any time. Also, take a step back, give her space, but try to keep the conversation rolling. You should try to keep things as pretty chill at first to gauge interest, and maintain a relaxed atmosphere so the girl doesn't get freaked out that she's speaking to a random stranger she just met.
You should also be reading her body-language to gauge how interested she is, and escalating (if appropriate) the right way. This video gives a good breakdown of how to keep things natural: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gd0QAe6dzgY
[–]anotherthrowawayad22 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks. The caught my eye line is one I may use....
[–]JaggedYellowPill 2 points3 points4 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yes
[–]caP1taL1sm 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Only one way to find out. Go up and say hi. Comment on something they're wearing/ask them about class.
Gosh, I wish I woke up to this universe when I was in college. Ughhhhhh
[–]yirboy 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You're asking if girls smiling at you is a good sign?
No it's not. It means they hate you. That's what people mean when they smile.
Come on dude :) Make eye contact, smile back and say hi.
[–]anotherthrowawayad22 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm not used to this amount of attention, as sparing as it is. A former fat kid getting in awesome shape has its benefits....
Yeah, I would though in a class setting, just on the street walking is hard for me.
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