What are some tactics you can advise me to learn

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-03-18T21:03:17+00:00

Focus the conversation on her, try to take her to different places and talk about how things felt.

Saying to a girl about her home city "I imagine that must have been a wonderful place to grow up" takes her back to her childhood and how she felt growing up there. "Wonderful" is an emotive word

If she's just moved to your city saying "it must have been exciting moving to the big city" is emotive language, "exciting" is emotional . On the flip side saying "why did you decide to move here" is just factual and logical.

If she tells you she's a lawyer talking about law is factual. Asking "so did you dream of being a lawyer when you were a little girl" is emotive ("dream" is emotive).

atomant88 · 2024-03-18T13:14:15+00:00

if you dont understand strategy then tactics arent very useful, win the war not just a few battles

start with the big picture, your fundamentals, and then zoom in to specifics.

sounds like you need to know how to build rapport. have deep , meaningful, intimate conversations that build an emotional bond. not just superficial smalltalk. so focus on that if you want a specific skill

but it wont replace a big-picture strategy

AssistTemporary8422 · 2024-03-18T15:39:31+00:00

Why aren't you able to insert emotions? Do you feel emotions? Are you afraid to express them? Do you feel like emotions aren't worth expressing like logic? Do you try to bury your emotions?

Fantastic-Life-2024 · 2024-03-18T12:11:50+00:00

There are no tactics only learn to be a human and not a robot.

Chicagoj1563 · 2024-03-19T02:47:07+00:00

Being attractive and good game isn’t something you do, it’s something you are. Tactics don’t change any of that.

That said here are a few things that can spark attraction and get you out of logic mode.

Misinterpretation. Purposely misinterpret something she says, and turn it into a self amusing joke or tease. You should be having fun with it. The sky is limit on what you can do. If you want to practice, watch a tv show. When a character says any random line, pause it. Then misinterpret the line and twist it into a joke. Practice sexualizing it. For example, accuse her of hitting on you.

Another thing you can do is show sexual intent. Let the girl know you find her attractive. You can do this with a joke, tease, being direct and just telling her, etc…

And remember, if you aren’t taking any social risks then you are getting no where. These things should make you feel a little uncomfortable. Get used to it and welcome the idea of taking risks to see what you get back. Test things out, learn from the feedback you get. Never take any of it seriously. It should all be self amusing fun.

Title	What are some tactics you can advise me to learn
Author	Terrible-Pie1410
Upvotes	13
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Date	March 18, 2024 11:44 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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