hi, i've read about half of the sidebar material in TRP and have also read a lot of posts in the main TRP subreddit, and there is one thing that i would like some more clarification on. namely, what exactly ARE "shit tests" - i think i have a good idea of the basics behind this, but often times when i read posts, there's someone who will say that something was a shit test, and i would never have recognized it as such (e.g. handing you her bag, and stuff like that). i'd like to ask, can someone recommend a PU program that goes much more in depth into what a shit test is, and that explains the underlying ideas behind it. my guess is it would be tied to holding frame, which is also something that i have struggle with understanding. would appreciate any info, especially to in depth programs. there is a ton of PU programs out there and my guess is that there will be more info in at least one of them. thanks.