Bros help me analyze these two dates so I can enjoy more like the first and less like the second.

Girl #1. She’s 25, Latina. No kids. Looks likely promiscuous in profile pics, shows off body and ass in bikini and thong. Has a very sexy fit 5’4” body. Small tits which are pierced, curvy hips and an amazing ass, just one of those nice sexy fit Latina style bodies that you see. Matched with her Feb 19, texted a bit back and forth and set a dinner date for the weekend about a week later. I’m vacationing in a country where dinners are cheap so I’m breaking the rule of no dinner at first dates. Prior to the date: She was upset that she had found out via her friend that I also had texted with her friend on tinder, and instead of saying ‘I’m sorry’ I made a joke that I’m probably not the first guy she’s ever texted on tinder and that if she didn’t arrive at the restaurant on time I’d just call up her friend who could be there in five minutes. I felt like this was a gamble that paid off, implying with a joke that I’d just bang her hot friend if she didn’t act right but that she had the opportunity to get with me if she acted cool. She arrived dressed very sexy, a thin stretchy fabric club dress that you might see on a prostitute or a girl in night club… dressed to advertise her sex appeal. She was cold at first but I got her smiling and eventually laughing a bit together with some joking around and normal conversation too. She was ok with being moved to a second location, a bar for one drink. At the bar she suggested I get a hotel room and not drive home at night due to increased risk, I took this as code that we would be having sex in that hotel room. I said show me where the hotel is, she leads me to a $25 hotel I get the room and within a minute of closing the door we are going at it like you’d see in the movies, tearing off each others clothing and banging like bunny rabbits. Afterwards she leaves so that I don’t have to pay double for the room just pay for one person. I set another date with her via text for the next weekend. Success.

Girl #2 She’s 25, Latina, has some kids that live with her ex. Looks less like a promiscuous girl in her profile pics and IG but she also has a small fit sexy body and you can see that even though she’s not showing off in a thong like the other girl. She dressed conservative for the date, jeans with some rips and a cotton shirt, but still pretty. I’ve matched with her two+ weeks ago but was less interested since she had less sexy pictures so didn’t bother setting up a date right away. Finally I’m bored and give her the option for a date, either casually meet up and chat on the beach maybe make a campfire, or put on nice clothes and go to dinner. She chooses the dinner which I’m fine with because I want to dress nicer and have her dressed nicer with makeup and perfume and all when we meet. The restaurant is actually closed so I wait there and she arrives a few minutes late, I say jokingly that I made a bad plan and it’s fine we can just walk to a different restaurant which will give us time to chat. I felt like it was fine, obviously not ideal to plan a date around a closed restaurant but the trade off was that I’d get to walk with her for 20 minutes of chit chatting and chemistry building. She seemed interested and smiling, laughing a bit at jokes and giving some indication of interest. We arrive at the next restaurant, a pizza place, but there’s no tables open so I say let’s walk back to this basic restaurant with basic local food. She seems maybe a bit dissatisfied that we are not going to a ‘nicer’ place but at this point there’s no other options unless we want to drive (on a motorcycle which requires helmets and would mess up her hair and outfit with road dust, so obviously not the play) we sit in the restaurant have a dinner chit chat platonically but I did sneak in a little bit of kino touching her arm or lightly bumping shoulders together when standing, but the interaction is mostly interview style where I’m just asking about her life trying to get her talking. She’s friendly and seems engaged but not really giving a ton of ioi. I mention that my hotel is just 20 meters from the restaurant so she knows that the logistics are ideal for a hookup. I don’t know if I should have somehow offered to show her my hotel or something but I asked her directly after dinner if she’d prefer to go home now or if she’d like to have one or maybe two beers at another location. She went with option one saying that she had work early in the morning and didn’t want to stay up late, it was 8pm. Walked back to her motorcycle had a half hug and she left. I’ll take the L here but really I didn’t lose much just about $6-$7 for her meal.

• So, what do I do differently to get more almost-free sex like the first girl gave me? I literally spent like $15 total on the first girl plus a $25 hotel, and was rewarded with some awesome sex. The second girl, just never gave me much more than platonic interactions and didn’t dress like a stripper, maybe the first girl was just looking for a hookup and the second one was less keen on just hooking up, I don’t know 🤷‍♂️