Not knowing how to close

DaygameCode · 2024-02-26T01:13:04+00:00

I wouldn’t ask for a number in a club. i would escalate sexually (kiss close). What is the point of having a platonic conversation that never progresses further? You talk and talk and talk, but you never make any move, never make it man to woman, never express desire and instead you suddenly ask for a number. Why? Goal is to escalate physically not take freaking numbers

Fuzzy-Bottle-4138 · 2024-02-26T00:21:52+00:00

You don’t go for phone numbers during night game at bars and clubs. And yea when women say they have a boyfriend whether or not they’re lying just means they aren’t interested in you

burncushlikewood · 2024-02-26T04:45:45+00:00

This isn't knowing how to close, this is an inner game and first two phases issue. The phases of seduction go like this, attraction, comfort, and lastly seduction which is closing. You want to demonstrate value, then make her comfortable, then seduction requires kissing and touching. Closing is easy, but getting her to that phase is what you're struggling with, your question is very broad and difficult to answer, you need to provide more information as to what specifically you need to work on, but you should be demonstrating value and talking with her, what angles to take and how to control conversation, here is a gambler video on speech, which is one of the most important tools in your seduction arsenal https://youtu.be/I-GWFWc8P4Y?si=_q7Q5waq4jVVk9K7

Jironasaurus · 2024-02-26T00:24:58+00:00

They're not interested. Doesn't matter what you do to try and close.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-02-26T00:32:08+00:00

they weren't interested. There was something you did during the conversation that lowered their attraction to you, or they just weren't attracted from the jump. They indirectly rejected you to be nice, because women very rarely will tell you no.

It's not a big deal. It's just how it is. Keep talking to women at clubs, keep doing what you're doing, just make sure you aren't boring these women in your conversation. So, when you go out, make sure you are having fun and playful conversations that are stimulating and not boring and logical.

This article discusses how to stimulate a woman's emotions during conversation when approaching them: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-have-fun-and-playful-conversations?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

TallDarkAndHandsom3 · 2024-02-26T03:18:15+00:00

The game is not to look for the close. You look for the indicators of interest. Women half choose you if they're interested, otherwise they've already made up their mind.

Don't focus on the girls. Focus on increasing your value, then the girls will start popping up.

There are only two rules:

1) Be attractive.

2) Don't be unattractive.

There's a reason this is touted as the best advice on this sub. Use it.

Title	Not knowing how to close
Author	First_Ad_9040
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	February 25, 2024 11:52 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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