http://www.gq.com/news-politics/mens-lives/201310/ashley-madison-affair-cheating-site?currentPage=1

What TRP needs to learn:

  • Cuckolding/cheating is real; it doesn't just happen among destitute women and "dishonorable" men who deserve to be "shot in the face" (a la some comments here recently).

  • Women want to cheat just as much as men. Women seek out cheating these days just as much as men.

  • Women hold 100% of the responsibility when they cheat (circumstances are irrelevant). They do not require defending nor a "cautious" man "to make sure she wants to do this". Trust me, she wants it...and will find it from you or the guy right after you.

  • Married/gf'd women constitute a whole huge segment of the female population; and it's naive to think that a whole segment of the female population acts one way (in this case, stays faithful).

  • In addition to wanting sex, women who cheat often are seeking to be "re-womanized". They have lost their alpha fucks and want it back. They are alpha widows essentially and are looking for a man to give them that. In support of this, most women who cheat don't want a relationship; it's just sex.

It all comes down to playing the game versus wanting to change the game. Naive guys want to change the nature of women to what they believe is "moral" to satisfy their wishful thinking. Wise men accept the game for what it is, and take advantage of all loopholes that they identify. And attached women constitute one helluva loophole with easy pickings.