Is there a reason why I see so many guys settle and not cold approach?

savagesteve_13 · 2017-07-27T05:59:31+00:00

Attraction isn't always just the physical. When you get older you find this out.

essexaspie · 2017-07-27T15:27:49+00:00

Pretty much every guy I know met their partner at work, or they knew them from school when they were younger (I imagine that in the Uk in particular this is true of a huge percentage of people due to various factors)

my friends think it's amusing that I cold approach girls.

I would deeply LOVE to be successful at it, in part to prove to them that i'm not wasting my time, but since starting unfortunately they've been about right so far, lol.

dontlookhistory · 2017-07-27T04:00:24+00:00

Are you a girl wishing guys would approach you? I dont get this post.

Hector_Castillo · 2017-07-27T16:10:23+00:00

Even the best naturals I know, who have lay counts of anywhere from 100-500, and with really gorgeous women, too, will not cold approach.

I've only met a dozen or so good naturals who consistently cold approaches and go out to bars alone, and I've met a metric dickton of people in my life. One dude, the second best seducer I've ever met in my life, estimated his notch-count to be 1,000 and he told me his routine.

"I go to the bar and stand around."

Says his close rate when out alone is in the 90% range. The guy I know who introduced us confirms that this dude is always pulling new tail. From the way he interacted with women, I'm inclined to believe his estimations. I think he "approached" (his opens were so low-effort that it's pushing it to call them opens) like 5 women the entire day/night (St. Patty's day), whereas I must have talked to 50-100 girls that day (I'm also crazy as fuck).

ShadyShopkeeper · 2017-07-27T02:05:25+00:00

What makes a man attractive? Hint, it's not 100% looks. What makes a man unattractive? Clingy behavior. What do unattractive women tolerate? Clingy behavior. Why? Because they are insecure too.

LetricSheep · 2017-07-28T05:31:04+00:00

Cold approach is hard. The overwhelming majority of men don't have the balls to do it and of those that do they usually fail. It takes a lot to get good. Usually it's easier to just take whatever comes your way and you can calibrate pickiness depending on how much comes your way.

Title	Is there a reason why I see so many guys settle and not cold approach?
Author	seddithrowaway11
Upvotes	13
Comments	8
Date	July 27, 2017 1:46 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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