What is the best way to dm girls on instagram and get replies? I used to copy and paste pick up lines and got loads of responses some good some very bad. One of them got screenshotted and it went round my college and like everyone knew who I was when I dm'ed them. So that was embarrasing. So now I just simiply put 'hi' 'hey' or 'hello' and I don't get any responses. Any ideas?