Tinder- matches; no conversations

rich_fletch · 2017-10-09T06:55:13+00:00

Good: you're reading their profile and trying to write a unique message that gets their interest.

Not so good: you're asking questions you don't give a shit about the answer to and that require too much effort for her to respond. 'Which plant would you recommend and why'...that requires more than a 2 word response, which she's unlikely to want to do with a guy she's not chatted to yet.

Make it easier for her to respond. Anything that grabs her curiosity...'omg it's you!!!' or 'you certainly pull a few interesting facial expressions' ...

...it invites the response 'how do you mean?'

Then you can pull her into a convo. You want to make it as easy as possible for her to reply, without saying dull shit like 'hey'.

NunoHimself · 2017-10-09T12:10:49+00:00

Try to send something that doesn't require a response. Instead of asking what house they like, tell them what house you like. Better than that would be a funny meme/message. I find that super formal messages (it's actually what most instructors use btw) tend to be better, because it's so ridiculous that it's obviously a joke. I've seen girl friends of mine on tinder, they get around one match perr minute. When you message them, be aware that you have at least 15 guys messaging her as well. Stand out.

Puadude · 2017-10-09T19:09:53+00:00

A solid approach that consistently works for me, is to challenge her right of the bat. How do you challenge? make funny, teasing, and/or cheaky, cocky accusations and statements.For example, if she's wearing a crop top in a pick you can text "What's up crop top...I hope your not as boring as you look in your picks(,:]. "I can already tell you would be so much trouble for me...i can see it in those(insert eye color here) eyes of yours. If she uses a lot of emoji's you can say "i think you should've used a few more(insert emojis from her bio here) or I think your bio needs more(). If your going to ask a question make it playful. Something like "Skittles or M&M's?" and what ever her response you can either say "Same here...we have so much in common already[:)" or "i'm luring kids into my van and you've just became my accomplice" another playful question could be "funny, confident, attractive... enough about me, what are your best qualities"? One good technique I see your using is formulating texts with things you've noticed from her bio; you can also use something from a pic. Once she's responded don't go on and on endlessly texting back in forth. Try and switch over to phone text at around 10 back and forth messages (ideally after you've spiked her emotions with a funny text). To transition as easily as possible preface the transition by seeding an idea or just asking her to hang out. Start with something along the lines of so what trouble are you getting into tonight/Tuesday/Friday/This week... and if she responds with busy just tell her to hangout another day but specify that day. If she responds with idk, wellll, not much etc you can say let's do something fun, let's hang out, let's grab a coffee at(), or let's go/do (insert date idea here)etc. If she doesn't respond at all, wait a day or two and send her a funny meme or joke and see if she responds then try for the date again after a few more back and forth. If she doesn't hook after the second time, I wouldn't waste my time with her anymore. Then once you get her number you can get a little more back and forth going on just to build some comfort. Or you can just simply set up the date through tinder no need for a number exchange. I would highly recommend creating a tinder account with fake pics, use pictures of attractive models(Just make sure they aren't well known). This way you can practice your tinder game and not jeopardize your matches. Just keep in mind girls will automatically be more receptive based on looks. What you can also do is use an average looking guy. Hope this helps. Enjoy the journey and don't give up, you'll get better, it's not a matter of if, but when.

steveo199 · 2017-10-14T18:50:00+00:00

You have to be witty watch this video on improvisation https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nR9oa6gxoUI

shrekismylove · 2017-10-09T06:00:18+00:00

lol you screwed my b. use the unoriginal shit on /r/tinder, girls like that type clever shit, no matter how bad it is.

Title	Tinder- matches; no conversations
Author	Rreptillian
Upvotes	4
Comments	8
Date	October 9, 2017 5:58 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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