Eye contact - the biggest shit test of all.

Sad_Sleeper · 2017-10-24T09:04:22+00:00

Often there is no shit test, but you've read too much stuff and think there is...

You are overthinking a simple interaction like eye contact. Imagine what will happen when you start approaching. Just try to live for the moment and stop overthinking what a simple eye contact can mean.

2017-10-24T10:13:02+00:00

Attraction can be made through pro-longed eye contact, definitely a yes. But not all girls dare to. Some even might actively avoid the eye-contact.

And yes they want to see if you are intimidated by it, so do not break it.

But just stop with calling things shit tests. It is all a big shit test so no worries and you might as well just be you. If I feel like having eye contact I have eye contact. If I like the girl just a bit I might break it. If you like her tell her, if she doesn't like you, move on.

luaudesign · 2017-10-24T09:44:57+00:00

For me, the most important thing about eye contact is that it goes two ways. It doesn't just affect the girl, it affects you. It's like giving your strings for the girl to pull: you do the right things at the right time effortlessly, because she's "making" you do it.

NunoHimself · 2017-10-24T11:47:04+00:00

Dude, you're over thinking

2017-10-24T16:17:07+00:00

Sustained eye contact has been proven to intensify feelings of attraction and emotional connection (assuming some initial level of attraction). And during sex, sustained eye contact can make it downright transcendent. But be careful with this – I’ve had many girls catch serious feelings for me after having sex while looking into each other’s eyes.

soxx66 · 2017-10-24T14:12:34+00:00

Prolonged eye contact with a stone face is her daring you to not be a pussy and make a move. Any woman that doesn't instantly look away should be approached. You can't just continue staring at her. You only get so long though before she thinks you are too afraid to make a move and she is gone forever.

ImJustSo · 2017-10-24T15:49:42+00:00

it seems like you are both searching each other's eyes for information (anyone have a better description?).

Sure, you're both searching for just as much information in the eye contact as you're searching for information in the conversation. You're exchanging information, not searching. You're talking, you're both saying things with your eyes.

And I agree, everyone here should practice eye contact, if it's not something they're comfortable with doing.

I love all forms of intimacy with women, including something as subtle as eye contact. I enjoy it.

Questionnaire7 · 2017-10-24T15:59:21+00:00

Can confirm. I had a girl bending over backwards for my attention at a music festival. They were camped near us. I went into the weekend trying to see how little I could say in each conversation while maintaining eye contact. I said almost nothong to her. Just sat up straight and smiled.

Could have hookes up but she was in this weird love triangle with 2 other people and they ended up getting sick due to germs being passed around at the festival.

wwwsteve · 2017-10-24T16:32:14+00:00

I am no Don Wan, but just get to know her. She is not to conquer. They have same wants desires as you. If your shy, be shy. I don't know, just seems your over thinking it. No offense

Thenameangussucks · 2017-10-24T21:49:14+00:00

I agree but I also like to look away before she does, I feel that I control the pace easier that way before I go in for the move.

Waiting for her to look away only to approach makes me look a bit desperate for her attention. I usually maintain eye contact long enough to let her know that I'm interested but not infatuated.

2017-10-24T06:15:03+00:00

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Title	Eye contact - the biggest shit test of all.
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Date	October 24, 2017 5:15 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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