Alternate ways to phrase "let's get a hotel" without being sleazy?

WolfySnackrib · 2018-01-07T14:57:51+00:00

I'm no expert, but I am a creator of creative content. So I'd just say figure out different ways to say it as if you were writing it stylishly into a fictional novel and you didn't want to make it sound cliché. Approach the things you want to achieve socially from the perspective of writing your own story, and you're writing success into it. Instead of "Hey, you wanna get a hotel?", you can have fun with the phrasing of it, make her chuckle. Sure you can do it in the more serious fashion which you described, but remember you don't have to be very specific. If she's game all you need to say is "Hey, do you wanna go some place?" or "I know a place, you know, for some quality alone time. It's got good drinks. Wanna go?" If she's all for it, then just lead the way without giving further info on the topic, and you guys end up at a hotel of your choosing, and by not having said anything you get to come across as a bit mysterious and adventurous.

ethical_pa · 2018-01-07T21:35:09+00:00

I’m in a similar situation. I’m thinking of just saying “let’s go back to my place”. It’s a fairly standard phrase, that sets the right expectations and agreement. Once she’s committed to that, she’ll likely accept a “change of plans”. If she’s game, it doesn’t really matter. Just come up with something somewhat plausible.

i forgot, my friend is visiting from out of town.
my place is too far away and I’m getting tired. I know somewhere...
my place just got fumigated
you look so hot right now, I just want bring you to a cheap motel and fuck you til you cum.

shulamith11 · 2018-01-07T17:10:08+00:00

Do you have hotels nearby? I was on a date with a guy and we were at the beach near a hotel. It was really late and he mentioned he wanted to rent a room and sleep. He wasn’t being serious and the rooms were too expensive at the moment. But it’s a chance to come off as spontaneous instead of sleazy...

ThePlayfulDom · 2018-01-10T01:44:24+00:00

Imply you already have the hotel. Or that it's already paid for. Talking about getting the hotel FOR HER is generally not a good idea, no matter how you word it. That puts a lot of pressure on her regarding your expectations. If she knows you're spending $100 or whatever on a hotel to be with her, she is going to feel pressured that you expect her to put out, which is never good for arousal.

oyoungpadawan · 2018-01-08T03:37:55+00:00

Are there bars near your place? Just ask girls to come to your neigbourhood, a good amount will go for it!

cool144 · 2018-01-07T14:53:06+00:00

just bang her in a bathroom.

if you want to waste money though, say "let's go to my place" and take her to the hotel

Title	Alternate ways to phrase "let's get a hotel" without being sleazy?
Author	HeartBreakRidge
Upvotes	7
Comments	16
Date	January 7, 2018 2:48 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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