I'm a beginner. The vast amount of information on the sidebar (and the internet) is overwhelming. Does anyone have a tl;dr?

Conor_Niggregor · 2018-01-13T09:05:02+00:00

tldr:

be attractive

don't validate girls

don't be too available

don't give a fucking fuck

sinbad2011 · 2018-01-13T09:47:26+00:00

You can read all the info you want. Not much will change. Biggest lesson = Taking action. Execution. That is the biggest thing in game.

2nd = realizing your self worth. You're approaching girls and know you have a lot to offer just by being positive/smiling.

3rd = dont be afraid to move things forward. if you notice shes not comfortable, dont freak out. just take a step back, apologize and try again after 10 min of fun with her.

These are the most important points i would have loved to know when i started. oh ya, also, give a fuck more about what you think than what others think and express, not impress.

hunterpua · 2018-01-13T18:47:59+00:00

tl;dr Game is about having something, anything of value and making her work for it. Sex, relationships, or whatever end point you can think of is not the goal, its still a part of her working to get the value that you offer. At some point, when she's worked hard enough, you won't even need the value, she'll just want to win you over because she'd feel like all the work she's put in will go to waste if she doesn't.

P.S. When I say any value, I mean ANY value. It can be the value that gets talked about in this sub or on the sidebar or monetary value, networking value, the ability to improve her career or any other aspect of her life, time, attention, status, fame, etc. And you don't need to acquire value every single time to get a girl. You can manufacture a situation where all of a sudden something you posses whether tangible or abstract becomes valuable.

For example: 10 guys, 1 girl. Your attention doesn't mean shit. 10 girls, 1 guy? All of a sudden your attention is valuable as fuck.

yardapesbb · 2018-01-13T15:22:17+00:00

If you seem to get friend-zoned a lot read 'No more Mr Nice Guy'.

2018-01-13T14:15:53+00:00

Lifting, clothes, hair, smell.

galactic_fury · 2018-01-13T23:36:34+00:00

Seduction is a skill, just like swimming or learning tennis. Do you think there is a tl;dr for any of them?

I fucking hate this mentality of "get rich quick". Every skill needs time and patience to hone and make better. You won't get better overnight. It will take months, possibly years of efforts. Which is why the sidebar has so much material: its to help you along that multi-year journey, with advice specific to different skill levels.

Arp94 · 2018-01-13T09:48:02+00:00

Also, you may find this article useful: http://www.blackdragonblog.com/2014/01/07/getting-started-from-scratch-your-first-12-steps-to-get-good-with-women/

circlhat · 2018-01-13T13:22:02+00:00

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