As the title suggests, I went out with a girl I matched with on tinder and had great success using the techniques/tips I have learned from this subreddit. Before jumping into the field report, here is a quick back story: in high school I was overweight and too embarrassed to talk to girls that I saw as “out of my league”. In addition, because of being overweight, I didn’t think very highly of myself and didn’t see myself as having any real sex appeal. After spending some time reading through the side bar and other members‘ posts, I have learned to adapt some techniques that have not only improved my inner game, but also given me more of a drive in life.

So for the field report: I matched with this girl on tinder (solid 8/10) a couple weeks ago and wound up getting her number. We talk off an on for about a week until we finally find a day we can meet up. We meet at BJ’s restaurant and brewery and here I practiced a lot of the advice shared in the sidebar. I made sure to do things such as maintaining eye contact, finding opportunities to touch her (in non-creepy situations) etc. after eating and talking for awhile, we walk out together and I walk her to her car arm-in-arm. We reach her car and we talk for a few minutes until we start to make out. We say good bye and that we should see each other again.

Two weeks later we get together again, this time at my house. Between the two times we see each other I had followed a lot of the advice from the sidebar on texting game. When she comes over I throw on a movie. About half way through the movie I slowly start to escalate kino by lightly touching and cuddling etc. this eventually leads to us slipping up into my room and having sex.

This field report may sound boring/basic as it is my first time posting here. In the end, by practicing what I had learned from the side bar and other community members I was successfully able to bed a girl after over a frustrating year of no contact with any females. This experience was a complete confidence booster and I am so much more confident now approaching/talking to women. I am very glad I found this community as it is helping me really come out of my shell in regard to interacting with women

Tl;dr: after going a prolonged time of no contact with women and being fed up about it, I studied the sidebar and was successfully able to use what I learned to bed a tinder match. Huge confidence booster, can’t wait to meet more girls