Maintaining frame while nurturing a plate in legitimate crisis

WarlaxZ · 2014-12-03T21:04:33+00:00

Girls going through a rough time, if you see her as no more than a piece of ass then who cares, but to be fair to the poor girl, getting cancer has got to be one of the hardest things that can happen in life. Even if you do fall out of attraction with her, its worth making time for the girl. It may not be very alpha in the usual sense, but its alpha to look after and protect people who are in trouble. You may not be interested in her ultimately, and as much as people are giving the 'fuck her off' type responses, I actually think be a decent stand up guy, actually show some compassion. How the fuck would half the people here feel if they suddenly discovered they had cancer. You'd want some support right? The red pill isn't only about sex, its about being the best possible person you can be.

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8ofSwords · 2014-12-03T19:13:38+00:00

Continue to be yourself.

Would you stop seeing a plate who is closing in on the wall? This is, in a lot of ways, similar to a kind of 'wall' Russian Roulette. You don't know if you'll still be attracted to her if she is 'altered,' which is understandable.

The best thing you could probably do is listen to her if she wants to talk, but otherwise prioritize your own wants and desires first. Take what you want to take. Don't worry about upsetting or disappointing anyone.

Diegosmiles_ · 2014-12-03T20:21:24+00:00

Support her, yes. She is also a human being that, in some way, trust you. But keep in mind that your only priority is yourself, so don't leave things that are important to you (gym, classes, work, courses, or even another plates) just for her.

You can be supportive trough this whole situation... but as you said, if after a couple of months you aren't attracted by this girl anymore (physical health is extremely important here) you have to drop her, because is what your instinct tell you, you can't change that.

I know it can sound brutal, but we, as men, are designed for looking the healthiest woman around for reproducing, nothing more, nothing less than that.

Please, update us with the situation. As I see, it is a complex problem.

fnordsnord · 2014-12-03T20:22:36+00:00

Just don't leave. She will actually take comfort in the fact that you don't seem to treat her any differently. If it were me, I would ask her to check with the Doc to find out if sex doggy style would be okay while her chest was healing. That might come off an insensitive - depends on you and where your relationship is.

Plus - fake boobs do NOT have to be crappy. Some of them are quite good. She needs to shop around for a reconstructive surgeon. West coast, head to Beverly Hill or San Francisco. East Coast: New York or Atlanta.

Tell not NOT to be shy about asking to see pictures and samples.

Seriously - a woman's tits play into her self image a great deal, even if she doesn't admit it to you or to herself. The reconstruction should ONT be approached as a mere add-on to the surgery.

tombreck2 · 2014-12-03T18:27:02+00:00

She's beautiful, respectful, submissive, friendly, interesting, interested, employed

Employed; is that really a big deal?

Treat her the same as if she didn't have cancer. "Your one boob is gonna be better than most girls two boobs".

LeGrandDiableBlanc · 2014-12-03T21:49:42+00:00

When a kid falls down, they will usually look to the resident adult and gauge their reaction. If the adult looks or acts concerned, this means shit is serious (in the reptilian brain of a child) and they may start to cry or otherwise act injured. They get scared because thier security guard is scared. If you are calm about it, they are reassured and less likely to throw a fit. Same concept really.

The best thing you can do is maintain frame. Keep fucking her and hanging out like normal. She'll be comforted by the fact that you haven't changed. She should be thinking, "If he doesn't think it's a huge deal, maybe it isn't as bad as I thought." It's almost like passing a shit test by holding frame.

It's certainly worth being compassionate to her when she talks about it. You don't even need to say anything beyond simple words that show you are paying attention when she is looking for comfort.

Finally, if she does get breast implants, you can use it as a way to increase sexual tension. Start with, 'Let me see them', and then make it known (non-verbally is best) how turned on you are by her new body. She wont believe it if you rationally say, "Wow, those looks great. You're so pretty. Blah blah blah blah." They're pat phrases anyone would say to make her feel better. If you fuck her passionately after she shows them to you while maintaining a calm and supportive state, it will be the best anxiety relief she can possibly get from you.

DO talk about all of the dirty things you're going to do to her more often (tell her, don't ask her), and feel free to remind her if she can't fuck for a while. Obviously use your judgement on saying that shit. It's not a good response to, say, her crying. Better said after you catch her bending over or something.

Title	Maintaining frame while nurturing a plate in legitimate crisis
Author	trp_ta
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	December 3, 2014 6:24 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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