How do you guys last longer in the bedroom?

Shadowfury957 · 2018-02-26T15:47:45+00:00

edge but stay much farther from the point of no return. Most importantly practice non-ejaculatory sex most for most of your sexual sessions.. this will make it easier to edge and more natural and comfortable and enjoyable. There's other beneficial reasons for non-ejaculatory sex but they aren't particularly relevant
you can go slow, at least some of the time.. you can greatly decrease your thrusts per minute (lol) while you are trying to build stamina and control to help you last longer
Use kegel breathing meditation (not while your having sex).. do the kegels on the exhale and release/relax on the inhale (can also experiment with vise versa)
In addition to kegel breathing meditation.. also try the tech where you hold a kegel for minutes 3-5+ minutes while you are just breathing/meditating this will work the kegel muscles/nerves/energy pathways differently than regular kegels

onizuka11 · 2018-02-26T16:56:12+00:00

Ever heard of the term 'whiskey dick?' It works for me to drink (a couple shots) before getting down to business. I get better enjoyment while buzzed, and I really have to work and think hard to finish. Try that.

damnyouresickbro · 2018-02-26T18:27:08+00:00

When I'm high I can last way longer, even with no condom. It makes me relaxed and allows me to enjoy the moment instead of the constant "don't bust early" anxiety.

weedmylips1 · 2018-02-26T19:40:10+00:00

practice

authenticsociallife · 2018-02-26T21:10:12+00:00

Stop masturbating. If you do masturbate, make it just a physical act and stop flashing lots of images in your mind that make you cum faster. You'll notice that if you masturbate as just a purely physical act you'll last longer.
Control your breathing. Relax; take a deep breath. slow down, and take your time. You can also switch positions.
If you watch porn, stop it because of item 1.
Jack off earlier in the day. You'll be on your second round and last longer.

abcgoodyabc · 2018-02-26T18:34:56+00:00

breathe. keep up the slow pace and think of your mum knocking the door soon.

quickcummerthrowaway · 2018-02-26T18:41:12+00:00

I created a throwaway to answer you and hopefully this can help others with control issues. I always came fast, mainly with penetration. Once I was in, it took everything just to last a minute or two, and if I let go, I could put it in and cum after three pumps. I’d tried everything. There’s 3 things that I’ve done to help me and I can last for a long time now in the sack.

Condoms. Use a condom, specifically, I use Durex Perfomax Intense. After making out, she may perform oral, I usually perform oral on her, and I put the condom on right before I go down on her. The condoms have a bit of numbing gel in them and it takes a little bit for it to work. This also helps me slow down and spend time on her orally. Once I feel like it’s working and she’s really worked up, the fun begins!
E-stim. I use a standard tens unit and pads you can find at any medical supply store. It took me a while to get to where it felt good, and there was a learning curve as to pad placement and technique. But once I figured it out, it’s an amazing way to masturbate. I’ve had many hands free orgasms that literally almost made me pass out. The biggest advantage to E-stim is the edging. You can really edge easily, for a long time, my e-stim sessions can last for an hour. I “hook up” sit back, watch porn, and Stim away. You control your threshold through how much you turn the unit up or down. Edging with just my hand never worked for me. I think this more than anything helped me learn control. Real control. To where I could actually focus on performing sexually rather than thinking about not cumming.
Tramadol (25mg) (I had a legal prescription) I discovered that low doses of Tramadol has an immense effect on how quickly I cum. When I know she’s really hot and wants a long hard sex session, I’ll take a 50mg tab, break it in half. Take it about an hour before sex. Don’t drink, or drink very very mildly. (Like sip ONE beer) If you take a whole one or get drunk at the same time, you’re going to have a hard time staying hard. In my experience. The low dosage has never seemed to affected me much in a sobriety way. I just feel a bit relaxed.

Now, after using these techniques, I have WAY more control over my own orgasms and I can truly focus on my partner and give her a great time. Good, sweaty, thorough sex. Dominant sex. Also, it’s like it made it easier for me mentally. I don’t use Tramadol hardly ever anymore, and I have found that my stamina without the condom is still light years better than it was before. I hope this helps you.

zfgee · 2018-02-27T00:45:13+00:00

Have sex more often.

ls737100 · 2018-02-27T02:08:09+00:00

One trick is when you get close to the point of no return, literally stop, pull out if you have to and rest a bit. When it passes, start again. It's like edging, but using her. If she seems disappointed, switch positions or switch to oral. I find after doing this 3 or 4 times, I can go for a long time.

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-02-27T04:41:15+00:00

I don't use distraction methods. I focus intently on what I'm doing so I control everything in my head. Practice jacking off to porn and control how fast you come, eventually you will be able to modulate your orgasm as you see fit.

As for coming too soon, don't apologize! Just fuck her 3 more times that night she will be okay with it.

2018-02-27T05:20:07+00:00

Dry humping, dry humping can be fun during forplay and I've found that running my dick on my jeans helps desensitize a bit, also a little bit of whiskey beforehand will help you last a lot longer, seriously whiskey gives you the magic cock, stays hard but a number so you don't bust

Title	How do you guys last longer in the bedroom?
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Date	February 26, 2018 2:37 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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