I've put in massive hours into improving my life. I've approached consistently over months now. I've hooked up with multiple girls, but after months of doing this I cannot for the life of me keep a girl longer than 1 month even if my life was on the line. I know how to approach. I have a good career ahead of me, I exercise regularly, and I continually pursue my goals. But I feel like I'm reaching a point where I'm stagnating. I still don't feel like I have control over my dating life / relationships, and it's really getting to me