Need some tips on building a rapport on Tinder.

TotallyWorrie · 2018-03-20T15:56:15+00:00

Like the guy above me said, the biggest problem for us guys is that women are drowning in messages from other guys. So you have to set yourself apart. I try to do this by not opening with the same old "hey how's it going?" Or by interviewing them with 20 questions.

I make assumptions, for example the last conversation went like this. The first girl had two pictures of her wearing Christmas lights around her neck. So I said "I think you have a thing for wearing Christmas lights." She said "Well I bought them and I needed to make good use of my investment." So I replied with "You're not going to wear them when we go out are you?" It got her laughing and it went well from there.

ReplyYouDidntExpect · 2018-03-20T15:46:56+00:00

For me, my only goal with Tinder is to get leads that I can move over to snapchat in order to qualify them. I don't really feel like trying to get to know someone over tinder. I really just want to take them out and see how we interact in person, so when I'm on tinder the only thing I'm trying to do is flirt and pull her interest enough to ask her to add me on snapchat (Not ask for her snapchat.)

To be honest, a lot of my openers are the same, and the ways the girls respond back a lot of the time are the same. I've no joke had the same conversation on tinder with multiple women. The point i'm trying to make is, try to worry less about connecting and understand that these women are being bombarded with messages from multiple schlupps a day. Just focus on setting yourself apart, being interesting, and getting them to snapchat.

I find that once I have them on snapchat and they've seen my story for a short time, they have a better understanding of who I am and I find my success with closing dates is much higher.

LingeringGnome · 2018-03-20T20:57:24+00:00

You get to know people in person, not over Tinder or text.

You: Hey Sarah, I like that evil gleam in your eyes, haha. Sarah: Yep, I'm trouble! You: That's what I like to hear. I'm watching Netflix and drinking a bit, you're welcome to swing by.

DONE.

If she says yes, you're getting laid. If she says no, you say "cool, no worries" and then you talk to another woman on Tinder and do the exact same thing until you find a woman who wants to come over.

Title	Need some tips on building a rapport on Tinder.
Author	Deadpoolsnephew
Upvotes	0
Comments	7
Date	March 20, 2018 3:20 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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