Asking a girl you have not hooked up with yet to "watch movies"

plowzedong · 2018-03-24T04:03:44+00:00

Alright.....

Instead of asking strangers on the internet, here's a novel idea.

Take action, check the outcome, refine your understanding of the world.

It's the same lame noob questions every day.

Lankyleeyum · 2018-03-24T04:24:14+00:00

Before this was a thing. I had friend zoned a chick, and some how invited her out to the movies. She wanted the D, but got Starwars instead. Worth it.

TheRealWoozle · 2018-03-24T05:35:12+00:00

Firstly, what’s this other date-like activity she’s been wanting to do?

Secondly, let me tell you a recent experience I had. I asked this girl to a university formal as my date - we had only hung out twice in group situations but I thought ‘what was there to lose’ and went for it. She says yes...that is until two days later when she realizes she already had a mandatory meeting for student org and can’t make it.

Now at this time finals and spring break is coming up so if I want to capitalize on this initial yes - and make sure it was genuine - I gotta move. So, I ask her to see a movie on discount day. This is something I wanted to do anyway so asking her wasn’t really going out of my way. She says yes, we have fun, but don’t do anything. Fast forward two more days and she’s inviting me over to watch a movie, end up having a great talk and closing.

Long story short, a movie is not a step down if you’re showing her a a good time and if she wants to spend time with you, it doesn’t really matter what you do. But if she swerves your advances on something as “simple” as this after her past aversions, I’d put her on the back burner. If she’s into you’ll she’ll put in effort and you shouldn’t waste yours.

ricardoschiller · 2018-03-24T11:39:51+00:00

I wouldn't go watch a movie. If you make time to go out with her, you should seize it to have fun and flirt. Do something women consider romantic. Watching a movie is an opportunity ruined by wasting time on something you both know really isn't the best think both would like to do. If she's in to you she will definitely agree to go to the movies, and probably even like it, but you could do much better. Invite her for dinner at a fancy place. Flirt with her and show her your trying to figure out if she's good enough for you. Have fun. Decide if you want to pay the bill. I probably wouldn't but that's up to you. Have a walk with her and let her cuddle with you and smell your cologne. Then drop her home and kiss her goodbye. Only go in if SHE asks you to. Never look desperate.

John-lovestosposh · 2018-03-25T04:15:38+00:00

Don't go to the movies lol .

physicalbitcoin · 2018-03-24T05:28:01+00:00

What's wrong with hanging out with a girl for 3-4 hours before you sleep with her? Or even 5-6 hours total time if its the second date. If you don't want to commit, tell her.

GuyFromDaStore · 2018-03-24T06:26:55+00:00

Give it a shot. Make sure the movie is good in case she doesn't pan out.

lawrencep93 · 2018-03-24T07:26:29+00:00

Get a coffee next to your house, seed the pull back to yours mid date, pull back, she just wants some comfort and to make sure things won't be awkward between you too. As you get better you can get her super connected over calls or text then have her come straight to yours like this girl I have coming over tonight

Lankyleeyum · 2018-03-24T08:10:12+00:00

Yeah she was good looking. Nothing wrong in that department. Just not my type.

bootyholeminer · 2018-03-24T03:50:07+00:00

Boyfriend zone means friend zone. There the same thing when you havent fucked the girl in question yet.

Also taking a women you havent railed out yet to a movie theater, might be the worst possible date you could take a women on if you want to fuck her that date.

But hey if you like being in the "boyfriend zone" go for it.

It's just in my own life and fellow game players this date leads to failure 99.9% of the time.

It might be as bad as taking a women you havent fucked yet out to a real restaurant.

Shit just you asking for this type of date already puts you in the friend zone. Women have game also, there own reference experiences tells them guys that take them out to these types of dates are suckers. Shut just look at all the failed movie dates in the search bar lol.

Just Netflix and chill this girl like the rest if you really want to watch a movie and still have a chance of getting laid.

Title	Asking a girl you have not hooked up with yet to "watch movies"
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Date	March 24, 2018 3:32 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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