[Badoo is an dating app similar to tinder]

❗❗❗So I was just looking at a girl's Badoo, and a few things that stood out❗❗❗

Guys, don't mess this up. It's simple.

For starters, a good picture is necessary. And not just a good picture, but one that stands out.

So many guys have basic pictures: close shots of head and shoulders, looking at the camera. It's boring and makes you look like every other thirsty dude on badoo.

In this case, even a tasteful black and white makes you stand out.

Some guys manage to fuck it up more by having a dark photo. The icons on badoo are small so you look like shit with a dark photo.

Please god don't look gay. Don't be lying on your bed all perky lipped and doe eye - unless lady boys are your thing. No cat filters. I don't know what those guys were thinking.

Unless you are aiming for a certain type of girl (the type you have to pay, or the lady boys?), don't have a shirtless photo be your first photo. And unless you are a professional model, don't have a shirtless photo while looking into the camera. Work out photos are kinda cheesy, but I could see them getting attention from certain girls during a certain time of the month.

I've seen this before, and the girl I was with mentioned it too < < <

She says she likes guys who are "polite." In womanese, it relates to her concept of social proof. Especially for the overly inhibited Asian girl, she's filtering all of her choices through a lens of how it will affect her reputation, what her friends and family might think. So if you look like a clown, or dirty, or indiscriminately sexual from the get go - especially on what amounts to a social media app - that filter is going to block you out.

(Of course, this same girl also wants a guy who will fuck her, not bore her to death with endless dinners and drinks... so understand 'politeness' for what it is: discretion and implied social proof..)

The best pictures are you smiling while doing some thing (besides getting your photo taken) in front of a cool background.

Women's photos are judged primarily by their physical desirability. Guys' photos are judged by the social value and personality it conveys. Don't mix that up.

On messaging: ✍️✍️

Don't ask boring, logical, yes/no questions.

Unless they're actually leading somewhere, don't randomly ask things like, "do you like soccer."

The biggest mistake guys make from the get-go is trying build logical rapport right away. Even cringier is approval-seeking texts.

Keep in mind, a lot of these girls are just using you for validation. They'll let you message once or twice, and stop responding cuz they feel bored. You've given them the validation they wanted, they move on. Always withhold full validation. Give her something to chase.

These girls are getting hit up by dozens of guys at any one time. So unless you can spike their emotions and get them off of the app, then you're just getting buried deeper in an ever growing pile of messages from other dudes hitting them up.

Of course, the easy solution to all this is to approach. Game in almost any other context is going to be more in your favor.

I'm not saying my text and online game is great.

In fact, it's pretty bad.

It sucks so much that I'm making a website about it.

It's called, My Text Game Sucks ....

Feel free to laugh

www.mytextgamesucks.wordpress.com