What to do if girlfriend said sex after marriage

b0100010 · 2018-05-15T04:10:53+00:00

don't pressure her to have sex if she doesn't want to, just move on

MindifIHitDatMF_YEET · 2018-05-15T05:20:24+00:00

You might have to get out. Even if you get married, there's a giant risk she may not even like sex, want to do it often, or do any of the things you might like for her to do ever (oral, anal, etc).

Signing a legal contract is too big of a step without knowing if you have basic physical compatibility.

Qjemuse · 2018-05-15T04:52:23+00:00

The real answer is, if a girl loves you enough she'll do anything for you. Lead like the man you are. The girls will follow and rationalize for you.

Cornelius280 · 2018-05-15T03:46:57+00:00

People still do that? Tell her that sex gets better with practice. No one learned to cook a killer meal on the first go.

Lodigo · 2018-05-15T14:52:42+00:00

Break up with her if all she means to you is sex. She deserves better than you.

2018-05-15T09:34:39+00:00

Just move on dude. It’s such an unnecessary way to live your life when we have so many forms of contraception. What if after getting married she realizes she really loves sex and feels regret from not being able to experiment in her youth and find a partner who also matches her better sexually. Now she’s going to feel like the marriage is a burden, perhaps resent you, no longer want to have sex with you, say goodbye to your marriage.

SuperSilver89 · 2018-05-15T09:02:07+00:00

Meet other girls and do your thing as if she didn't exist. Meet her occasionally and hang out, just lay the seduction on heavily without looking like a perv and just look for the signs that she won't be able to help herself

plowzedong · 2018-05-15T11:43:31+00:00

Break up with her.

It's not like she has a magically pussy which will feel better than every other girl, as long as you wait.

If that's her standard, fine. But it doesn't have to be yours. Let her find someone else who also has a similar set of ridiculously conservative values, or some chode who is willing to do whatever a women tells him.

Otherwise, if you stick around with this girl and have a relationship on her terms, it's always going to be you pressing for more and her resisting.

Have some self respect and break up with her..... Or get her to do anal.

Night159 · 2018-05-18T14:23:55+00:00

ditch her. and look for someone else. dont be stupid and lose time trying to convince her, it wouldnt work and in that time you could met another girl. (i´ll tell you something that you maybe dont know but if you ditch her because of that, she probably will want to have sex with you after. maybe she will message you in 1 or 2 weeks, but seriously, dont fall in his frame thats very needy and beta)

Title	What to do if girlfriend said sex after marriage
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Date	May 15, 2018 3:41 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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