So this usual happens where I meet a girl in person/online and get their number, but then am at just a loss of what to say, or even forget about them for weeks after. For example, on tinder I mention going to x place together, they say sure and then I get their number. After that, I don't know what do text first, as a generic hey it's x from tinder seems to be try-hard to and not good. The same goes from meeting women in person, even after setting up a date. I know we agreed to do something, but is being forward like: hey what's your schedule like this week fine? I'm also someone who doesn't like texting at al, and would rather call, but it isn't possible in today's age. I don't have that much experience texting and especially from online apps, so text game is something that I struggle at more than in person interactions.

Any help?