I Met a Guy With God Tier Genetic Who Lift Today and Realized that I Can't Really Compete With That No Matter How Much I Lift and Improve Myself. I Feel Despair TRP. How Do I Deal With This Feeling?

feminazis_stalk_me · 2015-01-06T18:57:16+00:00

We work with what we're given - that's how we do it. Accentuate and play to your strengths, while acknowledging and working on your weaknesses.

rocafella1321 · 2015-01-06T19:13:38+00:00

You cant be him. Be the best YOU that you can be.

[deleted] · 2015-01-06T19:17:19+00:00

You are a child. Don't take it as an insult, take it as the truth because it is. You are acting pathetic to feel despair about being physically inferior to another guy. Don't take this as an insult either, I'm trying to help you.

You shouldn't focus on lifting, you should go out in the world and do some adventuring and gain some experience and maturity. We all need to take a voyage in our life and your time has come. Go into the wild as a boy you can come back as a man.

Cyralea · 2015-01-06T19:25:02+00:00

There is always someone who has more. More money, more aesthetic looks, more status, more whatever. Only a very, very tiny number of the 7 billion on this planet are truly the #1 at anything.

You don't need to be #1. You just need to be top percentile. You reap the same benefits.

Just by lifting you've elevated yourself above the majority of males in fitness. With time and dedication you'll surpass another X percent.

Your worth is not measured by how far you are from #1.

AFPJ · 2015-01-06T19:37:37+00:00

The women he fucks won't be aware of your existence.

The women you fuck won't exist as far as he's concerned.

I don't see a problem or direct competition here - do you?

rjack60 · 2015-01-06T19:11:22+00:00

A few things:

If he has such great genetics that you question your own. He is likely using anabolic steroids. A miniscule amount natural lifters are impressive looking.
Who gives a shit because women don't like bodybuilders they like underwear models. Women are more intimidated by massive guys, notice I say intimidated not attracted.
If you really feel the need to concern yourself with another man's physique maybe you should use him as motivation and try to outlift him by working harder.

SenorPuff · 2015-01-06T19:22:51+00:00

Reality doesn't care about your feelings. Neither evolution nor God cares that you're not the epitome of human genetics.

You were dealt the hand you're holding. Accept it, the good parts and the bad parts. Know what you are. Be grateful for what you have. Work to make everything the best it can be.

If you can't accept yourself your frame will always be fragile.

One of the best framed men I know is an overweight mechanic. He has a smoking hot wife who tends to his every need. Why? He knows who he is. He's a mechanic, and a damn good one. He runs his shop top shelf. He's not a stock trader and he's never worn a suit in his life. He makes decent money, but not a huge amount. But he takes no shit from anyone.

Accept who you are, make you the best you you can be, and play to your strengths.

unisexunicorn · 2015-01-06T18:56:28+00:00

don't doubt yourself

[deleted] · 2015-01-06T18:56:51+00:00

Get over it. We're all losers in the genetic lottery in one way or another.

FrameWalker · 2015-01-06T19:00:17+00:00

There is still plenty to go around. I doubt he has time for a harem larger than 5 regulars.

HolyShniko · 2015-01-06T19:17:08+00:00

You're basing his and your own value on the amount of mass you can move? You're losing self esteem because someone can lift more weight than you? It isn't about being the best, it's all about being the best you can be with what you are given. Besides, you said yourself that his genetics are "god-tier," 99% of all guys will not look like that, so don't make that your baseline for attractiveness

1NV0K3R · 2015-01-06T19:27:54+00:00

A lot of shit on here says to LIFT like it's some magical end all be all 100% fix all.

It's not. All it does is make you look good, feel good, and inspire self-confidence which is what makes women want you.

Who cares about this fucker. There will always be someone better than you, and rest assured there is someone better than him.

edwardhwhite · 2015-01-06T19:37:44+00:00

dude could die in a car accident tomorrow and all those genes are gone. you're in it for you and no one else, so how good this guy does doesn't matter. plus he could be gay.

KyfhoMyoba · 2015-01-06T19:44:57+00:00

Learn how to AMOG. Learn game. Maintain frame.

[deleted] · 2015-01-06T20:29:07+00:00

You can achieve that body. Your face may look like rigatoni, but your body can be chiseled. You can GET HUGE!

It might take five years of dedication. Are you prepared for that? What about 10 years?

It depends on your final goal, and the minor goals you will accomplish all the way.

If you lift, you will need to push yourself. Master a routine. Reach a plateau. Adopt new routine. Reach another plateau. Maximize your diet. Switch routine. Plateau. Better diet. Better routine. Plateau. Supplements. Plateau. New supplements.

Its a rigorous cycle. Are you ready?

slater2j · 2015-01-06T20:31:01+00:00

There will always be someone better at everything you do. Even if you're the best, it's only a matter of time until someone surpasses you. You can be content in being top 50 percent, top 25 percent or top 10 percent. Just be the best version of yourself.

[deleted] · 2015-01-06T21:27:36+00:00

your life is not about others.

lift so you become the strongest version of your life and make the most of what you have, enjoy your life as much as possible.

if you can compete with him or not simply doesnt matter.

Squeezymypenisy · 2015-01-06T21:31:13+00:00

Is this a troll post?

[deleted] · 2015-01-06T20:11:37+00:00

sorry i made you feel like a dickless wimp

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