What’s the best way to create sexual tension while on a first/tinder date?

jenkinsonfire · 2018-09-17T06:46:13+00:00

It’s not suddenly created. You have to be playful and be suggestive with innuendo when you first start talking to the person.

That way they know what to expect from you, and sexual tension will only become easier after that.

So to answer your question (sort of), the date should be an opportunity to continue and progress the sexual tension that you would ideally have already communicated

StrawberryKiss2559 · 2018-09-17T14:21:05+00:00

You can’t create it.

It’s just there or not.

I’ve been on dates with guys that try to create it. It’s just so cringe worthy and uncomfortable and embarrassing to see.

2018-09-17T12:16:52+00:00

Tension is ever present, it's the currency of escalation.

Let it build by holding her gaze, and trying to gradually escalate while gauging her boundaries. Act upon them but unapologetically. back off if she stops you or retreats (again unapologetically), and keep testing and submitting to her boundaries.

If she lets you do xyz, that means she's okay with it. It's the only way you'll know to continue to escalate.

In conversation, dont extinguish sexual tension with nervous jokes/laughs, abrupt topic change, speaking right after them/speaking too quicily.. Only resolve it with purpose, with flirting/eacalation.

Obv awkward tension should absolutely be addressed and relieved with humility and not really giving two shits if things got weird for a second or two. It happens all the time with strangers. Address it, be okay with it/laugh it off, make more eye contact, try to touch her leg/hands whatever

Conor_Niggregor · 2018-09-17T08:33:19+00:00

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Title	What’s the best way to create sexual tension while on a first/tinder date?
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Date	September 17, 2018 4:16 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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