Hi all,

So I'm a very needy and introverted guy who is also a 25 year old virgin. As I face a lot of customers face to face I have a lot of interactions with variety of both males and females. So today I'm with this woman and she was coming too friendly to me, complementing on some stuff so I thought something was up and immediately decided to roll with it and give it a shot because why the fuck not. So I started doing the same to her then at the end when we were walking down the hall I asked her if she wanted to go for a drink sometime to which she said yes. Then we arrived at her office where I did what I had to do and handed her my phone so she can input her number into it which she did. With a corner of my eye I have noticed that she kind of blushed. When I asked her out I thought she was 20 years old on in her late 20's.

I was so excited I couldn't wait for the end of work which by that time was 2 hours and 9 minutes. I also have decided to abandon my gym session because why not, grab and use the opportunity when it comes especially that it's was my first time successfully asking woman out in face to face opposed to online which is always easier. Mind you through out of my 25 years I have only asked a girl face to face which ended unsuccessfully.

So important time comes, we go for a drink and boii how wrong I was, she was 29 years old but looked very young as most Asians do. She also told me that I look older because for her most people in office suits and clothes look this way. To sum up our night both of us had a lovely time, awkward starring at each other with a lovely smiles; complementing each other; me being a subtly touchy and interesting topics that we have covered. It appeared that she was a female version of me like 1:1 because interests, hobbies etc were all the same and sexual chemistry was definitely there.

Then we walk out of the pub and head back, at this moment I thought "Better ask if she wants to go out on another date" which I was quite nervous to do but I did anyway then she said I'm all sweet and all that but she doesn't see us together because she is looking for someone older than me but she wants to be friends together to which I said ok because I'm fine with it. I also said that I look for someone older than me and if we were together it wouldn't matter to me because I'm into older women and for me it's just a number.

When we walked down the street we started to talk more openly about being attracted to each other, sex etc. She also admitted that when I asked her for a drink she didn't realized it was going to be a date, she came to realization it's going to be a date long time after she put her number in my phone and I was gone. It shows that women can be even more oblivious than us men. It's pretty funny if you ask me as well because I missed signals from various women multiple times before and I realized it only like week or month later what happened but then it was already too late. (Facepalm).

It was the best date I have ever had and because she said that she wants to meet for a drink, I got excited and more confident when dealing with women in general from today. Still tho, I won't ask someone out if I don't see that they are interested in me. This looks like at least to me that it's more effective method than online dating because when I did it, it was peace of cake. Even tho I got friendzoned I feel like a fucking bad ass and I'm over the moon because she said yes.

P.S I decided to share this with you guys because I think it's worth sharing as well as wanted to see if you had any similar experience.

TL;DR: I have successfully asked a girl out then got friendzoned and I feel like a fucking bad ass and I'm over the moon because she said yes.