So I was ghosted for the first time today

TibetanWisdom · 2018-10-05T02:00:47+00:00

Harnest that anger, let it flow through you. Use it as motivation, get your body and mind better. Let this be the very last time you develop Oneitis. That girl who you think is so damn cute and feminine with her pretty green eyes and smile, just down the block theres a girl just like her but w a better ass. And, next time you see her in class, dont act salty, have convo w her. She may see how it didnt affect you and get turned on by that.

Hashmouse · 2018-10-05T01:05:50+00:00

You sound bitter and make it sound like you want to do it to show her. But good luck

BigTinBaltimore · 2018-10-05T03:20:05+00:00

Rejection is normal, you can give a shit.... and ignoring her??? That makes you look like you were hurt, the best revenge is happiness, no matter what you do, have a blast & maybe she’ll see you doing it...

dailymanup · 2018-10-05T03:37:48+00:00

This is why you get ghosted & ignored.

ricolahh · 2018-10-05T03:43:11+00:00

Hey man, what I’ve learned is that once in a while there is actually a legitimate reason for the ghosting. It’s rare but for e.g. I had this one girl get in a bad car accident on the way to our date and didn’t find out until days later when she was stabilized. Perhaps nothing happened and your girl is hopping on other dick but either way your response should remain the same: calm, collected, and confident.

Ikuyas · 2018-10-06T02:22:34+00:00

Never never never ask why she does text you back. NEVER. It is hard but you have to pretend nothing had happened, pretend that you text so many girls simultaneously so you dont notice that she didn't text you back. Ideally you are supposed to be talking to multiple girls but at least you need to pretend.

l-Orion-l · 2018-10-05T02:56:29+00:00

Remember bro, you are the prize not her. You don't have time for her bullshit and if you give in you are only communicating that you lack self confidence and have low standards and you know you are better than that. Go find women who are worth your time.

ValleyKilmers · 2018-10-05T05:17:59+00:00

Watch your language

recyclablebanthas · 2018-10-05T03:05:44+00:00

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So I was ghosted for the first time today

Honestly, we don't even need to go further than this to arrive at a very important conclusion: socializing is a two-way exchange and if the other person isn't participating, it's not worth your time to invest in it, and they might not have been the person you thought.

Which is fine. A lot of people aren't necessarily the people you initially think they are. But enough of them are that it's all worth it.

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Texted her to hang and she never replied. Worst part is I see her in class every week, and she still had the 'nads to ghost me.

You've mentioned almost nothing about how events went down, preceding you being ghosted.

But you almost certainly made some missteps, and ghosting is what happens when you misstep sometimes. She might be in the wrong here, but more than likely, there's something for you to learn here, even if it might take a few weeks, months, or even years for the lesson to fully sink in.

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I've never gone to bars before, but I'm gonna start now. I'm gonna go out to bars and meet plenty of girls....

While it's good to get back on the horse, there's a flaw here if your primary thrust here is just about the girls.

"Seduction" requires social skills and you can best build those up by chatting with guys and girls. Not just picking out the girls, which can end up singling you out in a bad way.

You can have an agenda; people want to get laid. But if you come off like that's all you're about, you're actually less likely to get laid.

GhostMan240 · 2018-10-05T11:10:42+00:00

Why are there so many virgins on this sub like damn

Title	So I was ghosted for the first time today
Author	MaldororHollow
Upvotes	7
Comments	18
Date	October 5, 2018 1:02 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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