How To Stop Worrying About What Other People Think --- Realize They're Not Thinking Anything About You

enigmaticdarkness · 2018-10-05T04:39:08+00:00

I feel this is extremely relevant and true. It's a pretty self-devastating concept that I know many guys fall victim to, including myself. I wish it was as easy as saying, " I don't/won't care."

chronosthetitan · 2018-10-05T04:36:32+00:00

Most people don’t care about stuff that’s not relevant to themselves.

battery-at-1-percent · 2018-10-05T07:17:46+00:00

Off topic but the line Ugarte actually says is, “You despise me don’t you?”.

ganjabobby · 2018-10-05T11:35:19+00:00

Every time I see someone getting rejected I feel sorry for them and just think to myself next time they’ll do it pray for this brother.

Literally nobody I know makes fun of people getting rejected... it’s part of living.

ReidoTyree · 2018-10-05T04:25:18+00:00

Who cares if they do care? 🤷🏾‍♂️

looking4answers25 · 2018-10-05T08:33:29+00:00

I actually asked my boss to move me at work away from some women. Now they are mad at me for asked to be moved and won’t speak to me. So, I call bullshit. If they don’t care what I think...why do they care if I move.

Trust me....they care.

sk07ch · 2018-10-05T13:51:23+00:00

Truth is: You don't know what the fuck they're thinking. Either you ask, or you stop the fuck worrying about sth you won't know for certain.

2018-10-05T14:37:42+00:00

r/howtonotgiveafuck is a damn good resource here too

2018-10-05T08:44:50+00:00

True. Still need to do things that make it easier to cope in a healthy manner instead of alchohol and W.O.W..

brendansiraky · 2018-10-05T10:52:01+00:00

“You’ll stop caring what people think when you realise how little they do”

nosleepatall · 2018-10-05T11:13:27+00:00

You can get away with a lot of things without people even blinking an eye. And even if they watch you get shot down horrendously, they will have forgotten minutes later. And unless you live in a small village, you won't see most people you see ever again.

8109 · 2018-10-05T07:16:12+00:00

You’re going to fix the typo in Blaine’s statement though, right?

enigmaticdarkness · 2018-10-05T04:46:07+00:00

Well said, and enlightening as well. Thanks.

Trysdale · 2018-10-05T06:35:28+00:00

I think you’re right.

juanappleseed · 2018-10-05T16:00:01+00:00

Some people do care. But they don't care to the degree you care unless you are really affecting them personally.

dailymanup · 2018-10-05T20:12:49+00:00

More often I see someone getting rejected I’m thinking “I wish I would have had the courage to try as they did.”

Rejection = one step closer to the goal; keep going.

johnhouston2 · 2018-10-05T12:39:43+00:00

I remember who I rejected. :-)

Title	How To Stop Worrying About What Other People Think --- Realize They're Not Thinking Anything About You
Author	dailymanup
Upvotes	451
Comments	36
Date	October 5, 2018 2:57 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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