Missing step in Kino escalation

hunterpua · 2018-10-30T20:33:39+00:00

Is leaving a hand or leaving it ans caressing her leg supposed to be subtle or is it supposed to be super obvious you are being sexual with her?

The execution should be done subtly but its gonna be very obvious to her anyway.

That means when you get to that point you just go and caress her leg or you just go and take her hand but not necessarily communicate that its because you want to fuck her. You don't look at her like, "Yeah baby, I'm gonna wreck you." and you certainly don't look at your hand then look back at her as if to say, "Yeah, we both know what's happening." Its better to both know what's happening but not really acknowledge it. Almost be doing it under a pretense. So whatever you were talking about or whatever you were doing, keep doing it while you're doing the escalation. You can smile but keep the smile ambiguous.

Its similar to how having a drink with a girl even if her's is secretly non-alcoholic will make her more likely to sleep with you. She just needs an excuse to act on her sexual urges "faster than she normally would". So by continuing on with what you're talking about as if no escalation is occurring you give her the excuse in her mind to say she was "distracted by the conversation" or something and that's why she let you escalate.

WB2E · 2018-10-30T21:19:18+00:00

What happens when you kiss a girl? There's 0 gap between your lips and hers, duh. In conversation, there's whatever 2-3 feet of distance between your lips.

So basically, you're trying to bridge the gap. Literally decreasing the distance between your lips and hers. So that when a kiss is about to occur, she's comfortable with the distance between your faces decreasing.

"What perfume do you wear?" (Prada) "It smells nice, let me see..." Brush her hair behind her head, lean in, and slowly smell her neck. Tell her she smells sexy, or familiar. Or you can do push-pull and say "You gotta get away from me! You smell way too sexy, you're making me think impure thoughts." Putting your head at her neck starts the progressive decrease in distance between your faces - and neck/smell is very sensual. This will definitely start to turn her on.
Hugging, and then after hug still hold her around her waist close to you / leave 1 hand on her waist if 2 is too fast for her.
Close eye gazing during conversation progressively getting closer until faces are like a few inchs away. I just did this one on Halloween. Speak slower and deeper, hold her strong at the waist like she's yours. Tilt your head to the side a bit, mimicking the position your head is in when you kiss. She will begin to mirror you and tilt her head in the complementary kiss position. Her eyes will dilate and she'll give you that gazing up look. You can even tease her and get close like couple inches away, and then pull back. Make her expect it, then have to wait. Build suspense.
Shoulder massages / head massages - while this doesn't necessarily close the distance of your faces, it gets her comfortable with you putting your hand on her head/neck which will help when you go in for the kiss, since your hand should be there. Of course a neck/head massage is very sensual also.

Title	Missing step in Kino escalation
Author	Shadow__Account
Upvotes	2
Comments	5
Date	October 30, 2018 7:32 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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